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About lydias

I'm a sci-fi writer who loves lifting weights and hates eating Brussels sprouts.

Writing Influences: J.R.R. Tolkien

One RingThis is the first in a series of posts I’ll be sharing about the authors and books that have influenced my writing style in some way.

When I was a kid, my uncle gave me a copy of The Hobbit as well as copies of The Lord of the Rings trilogy. It took a couple of years for me to grow into The Lord of the Rings, although I loved The Hobbit immediately.

Hobbits seemed like my kind of people. They were peaceful, bookish, and loved even the simplest meal as long as it was hearty and filling. They weren’t particularly interested in glory or in being the centre of attention. I often daydreamed about how much fun it would be to live among them.

What I liked the most about Tolkien’s stories, though, were the details. He’d stop in the middle of a scene to describe the long history of the building the characters were visiting or exactly what the land around them  looked like.

While I’ll admit that this strategy did slow down the pacing of the plot in some places, it also gave me extremely clear mental images of the settings . Even today I can close my eyes and see exactly what those places looked, sounded, and in some cases smelled like. It’s as though I’ve visited them myself instead of read about them in books, and that’s pretty amazing considering how long its been since I’ve read those passages.

As an author, I don’t include as many details about the setting in my stories as Tolkien did. I prefer to let my audience imagine certain details for themselves, although I do try to pick a few specific things to focus on when I’m describing where my characters are. There’s definitely something to be said for taking a moment away from the main conflict of the story to show what the main characters are sensing at that exact point in time. It can be a very powerful way to draw a reader into the conflict and help them empathize with the characters they’ve been following.

This is something I do in real life as well. Some of my strongest memories of certain events exist because I took a minute to emotionally step away from what was happening and absorb all of the sights and sounds around me.  It’s amazing to see what kinds of things you’ll notice when you take the time to pay attention to everything that’s happening around you.

Have you ever tried to drink in every sight and sound around you in a particular moment?

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The Leafcutter

The Leafcutter from Art&Graft on Vimeo.

This is a gentle short film that I loved.

I spent a lot of time watching ants march around outside after my assignments were finished during the years when I was homeschooled. They are fascinating little creatures.

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What the United States Lost By Gaining Independence from Britain

I’ll be back later on this week with a full post. Today I’m recovering from a weekend full of various Pride and Canada Day events. They were a ton of fun, but my mind and body are drained from all of the sunshine, crowds, and hours spent walking around. (I logged 24,000 steps yesterday alone!)

In the meantime, I hope you enjoy this video. I absolutely love seeing this kind of gentle ribbing from one country to another. It’s funny to me to see how the relationship between the U.S. and Britain has evolved over the last 240 years.  The U.S. was once like a rebellious child in certain ways, and Britain was like an overly-strict parent. Now they’re more like siblings who remember how much they used to bicker but can’t remember why those old arguments were ever that important.  Isn’t it interesting how that works?

Hopefully Canada will get to join in on the fun next time!

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Suggestion Saturday: July 2, 2016

Here is this week’s list of tidbits from my favourite corners of the web.

I Quit Showering, and Life Continued. I’m simultaneously grossed out and fascinated by this article.

5 Ways to Respond When Others Tear You Down via JoleeneMoody. Number 4 is the best one in my experience, although the rest are also helpful.

How to Love Yourself via KathyB5710‬. This was really good. Now I just need to start putting the tough ones into practice. Ha!

The Bisexual Dilemma. I know about how this works all too well.

From Why Do We Glorify Running Around Like a Headless Chicken? via ArguablyHonest‬:

It’s very fashionable these days to say “I don’t have time for anything” or “I’m too busy to do xyz”. But why? It’s not healthy, it very rarely makes us happy, not allowing us time to live a life and enjoy it.

This is for the Americans:

And this is for my Canadian readers:

What have you been reading?

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What Are Your Long Weekend Plans?

Will you be watching fireworks?

Bratislava_New_Year_Fireworks

 

Drinking something alcoholic?

Margarita

Feeling patriotic?

Canada Day Flag

Grilling something delicious?

Grilled Vegetables

Spending time with your favourite animals?

Photo credit: Alex.

Photo credit: Alex.

Or your favourite people?

People Cuddling

Whatever it is you’re planning, I hope you have a wonderful Canada Day or Independence Day.

I will be doing at least two of the things listed above, but I’ll leave it up to you to guess which ones they might be. Ha!

I’ll see you in a few days. Cheers.

(I know that this isn’t a holiday weekend for everyone, but most of my readers come from Canada and the United States. If you’re from another country, I’d love to know what you’re planning to do over the weekend as well!)

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What Happened Before History? Human Origins

This is a little longer than most of the videos I share on this blog, but it was well worth my time.

It’s incredible to think that humans were hunter-gatherers for the vast majority of our time on earth. The narrator goes into a lot of detail about what their lives were like and how slowly things changed for our ancestors.

I highly recommend checking it out to anyone who is even slightly interested in history or palaeontology.

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Please Give Us Self-Driving Cars, Tech Gods

This post is a response to my friend Colleen’s latest post, Please Tech Gods, Don’t Give Us Self-Driving Cars.

People have been dreaming of self-driving cars for nearly a century.

“An early attempt at a self-driving vehicle came with the help of remote control, as the so-called “Phantom Auto” drove through the streets of Milwaukee in 1926,” Alanis King writes in a recent article.

Colleen worries about what will happen to modern society when self-driving cars replace the traditional ones people are currently using.

I worry about history repeating itself.

 Car Accidents Kill and Injure People Every Day

My mother was in a frightening car accident when I was a kid. The person who hit her was an inexperienced driver who had no idea how to navigate winter roads. There was a semi truck that narrowly missed my mom’s vehicle when she was shoved across the road by the inexperienced driver. Had anything happened in even a slightly differently sequence of events, we would have lost far more than a car that day.

A childhood friend died in a car accident one foggy night. He was 16, and he’d proudly shown off his brand new driver’s license to everyone just a few weeks his death. There were so many people packed into his viewing room that we spilled over into an adjacent room where someone else’s viewing was taking place. I’ll never forget what it felt like be surrounded by all of that raw grief.

This isn’t even to mention all of the injuries that happen when cars veer off the road or smash into each other. A family friend was paralyzed from the neck down in a car accident. Another family friend fractured his leg in a car accident. While he did eventually fully recover, he spent weeks immobilized and in a great deal of pain first.

I think about these stories every time I crawl into a car and put on my seatbelt. While most trips are perfectly safe and mundane, driving a two-ton hunk of metal down the road can end terribly if anything goes wrong.

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Not All Drivers Are Safe Drivers

It’s not only your driving abilities that you have to think about, either. There are many people on the road who really shouldn’t be there that day. They may be drunk, fatigued, distracted by a text message, doped up on cold medicine*, or unfamiliar with the local driving laws.

There are also times when people who had been safe drivers for decades refused to stop driving when their mental or physical health status deteriorated. It’s pretty difficult to take a license away from a senior citizen who is slowly becoming less and less safe on the road, who hasn’t caused any serious accidents yet, and who refuses to give up their keys.

*someone I knew when I was younger was once stopped by the police for erratic driving. She had a bad cold that day and had taken so many different over-the-counter products for it that she really didn’t know what she was doing. She was very lucky that she didn’t hurt herself or  anyone else.

Different Kinds of Freedom

I understood where Colleen was coming from when she talked about how much she loves the freedom that comes with hopping in her car and going wherever she pleases without a computer controlling the steering wheel or telling her to buckle up.

Freedom is relative, though, and there are many different types of it.

I still wonder what kind of man my friend would be he’d be if he’d lived to become one. He was so creative and energetic. Maybe he would have channelled his love of skate-boarding into some kind of incredible small business? Maybe he would have gotten a degree in Social Work and spent the last decade mentoring kids who reminded him of his sometimes-wild teenaged self?

A few hundred dollars per car and some extra regulations are beyond worth it if they prevent deaths. My grief was a drop in the bucket when compared to what my friend’s family went through after he died. That isn’t the kind of pain I’d ever wish on anyone. Even when the wound heals, the scar stays with you for the rest of your life.

A Car Is a Means to an End

Colleen clearly has an emotional attachment to her car and to the memories she’s made of various trips she’s taken. I respect that even though I don’t necessarily understand it.

To me, cars are a means to an end. If I need to get from Point A to Point B, I don’t care if it’s in a traditional car, a self-driving car, a gondola, Santa’s sleigh, or on the back of a large, purple dragon named Frank.

Getting there as safely as possible every single time you travel is all that counts.

Once they’ve been tested and programmed fully, self-driving cars are going to be much safer than the traditional ones. Human error is a real thing, and it can never be eliminated.

So bring on the self-driving cars! I’m thrilled at the prospect of living in a world where this cause of so much human suffering  over the last century can be eliminated.

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Suggestion Saturday: June 25, 2016

Here is this week’s list of tidbits from my favourite corners of the web.

From What Straight Allies Need To Realize About Pride:

I know many of you attend Pride Parades for the fun, not for the political significance. It’s time you realized that Pride is so much fun because it’s the one day we exist in a place where people are free to be themselves. Imagine the beauty of a life where that was true every day.

Yesterday I had my first grease fire… via lizmeldon2‬. I can’t remember the last time I scrubbed out my oven. This post is making me think I should change that.

What to Grow to Survive an Apocalypse. If I had a backyard, I’d grow a lot of these foods. Would you do the same?

5 Yoga Thoughts You Should Think Right Now via YogaMatMonkey‬. This was wonderful. #2 was my favourite of them all.

Psychologists Recommend Children be Bored in the Summer. Could the same thing be said for adults? Most adults don’t get the entire summer off, of course, but while reading this I did wonder if boredom is just as good for you when you grow older.

Giving the Finger to Romance Snobs via MtnMoxieGirl‬. I couldn’t agree with this more.

What have you been reading?

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How Have Your Tastebuds Changed?

blueberriesThose of you who follow me on Twitter may have noticed me talking about this yesterday, but I’ll quickly recap it for everyone else. I’d just come back home from a dental cleaning that went really well. I jokingly told Twitter that I thought I should get to eat ice cream as a reward for having a healthy mouth. The funny thing is, though, that I seem to be losing my sweet tooth.

I’ll still have treats on occasion, but I don’t crave soy ice cream, cookies, or doughnuts like I used to. This is something I first noticed a few years ago when I cut soda out of my diet. After months of going without it, I was surprised by how cloyingly sweet it was when I tried it again. I still don’t like it.

I noticed this change even more last autumn when I picked up some doughnuts I used to love at a little vegan bakery in my city. They’d been delicious in the past, but now they were a little too sweet for me. I appreciated them, but I haven’t been back for more since then.

The same thing has also happened with alcohol. On the rare occasion that I used to have a glass of it, I’d pick something that was full of fruit and sugar to mask the taste of vodka or other alcoholic ingredients that I’ve never found tasty. My husband and I went out to dinner at a nice restaurant earlier this month. The menu was full of mixed drinks that might have tempted me a few years ago, but I shrugged off the idea of ordering one within seconds. Ice water sounded so much better.

Did that original decision to stop drinking soda start it all? I think it might have. They say your palate can adjust to all kinds of dietary changes if you give it enough time. What was once perfectly sweet (or salty) might not taste very good once you’ve gotten used to a different way of eating.

How have your tastebuds changes?

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The Counting Sheep

Fun fact: I used to count sheep right before going to sleep when I was a kid.

It never made me sleepy, though. My sheep wore such creative costumes that imagining them only woke me up.

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