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Men in Chairs

via http://cool3dworld.com/.

This is the strangest thing I’ve ever seen on the Internet, and I’ve seen a lot of weird stuff.

Why are the men not wearing any clothing?

Why do they all look identical?

Why are they yelling?

Why are they so buoyant?

I have no idea, but I couldn’t stop watching.

If you have any theories, let me know.

 

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7 New Rules for Labour Day

Monday Blogs Photo #1Traditionally, people weren’t supposed to wear white after Labour Day if they wanted to be seen as fashionable. Almost no one follows this rule anymore, so I thought I’d nominate some guidelines for this time of year.

Let me know which one you want to vote for as the official replacement in the comments below.

  1. No guilt-trips after Labour Day. Hallothankschrismukkah is rapidly approaching, and soon everyone will be busy preparing for it in a million different ways. This means that no one is going to have the time or energy to accept even a small guilt trip. If you absolutely must send them out, they should be postmarked no later than this afternoon and can only reference things that will be finished by 6 pm sharp this evening.
  2. No back-to-school shopping after Labour Day. Look, you’ve had weeks to pick up new compasses, sneakers, lunch boxes, replacement charge cords for your electronic devices after the last one got lost on vacation, and spiral notebooks. If you haven’t found everything on the list by now, you probably never will.
  3. No wearing socks with sandals after Labour Day. That is strictly a summer fashion. There’s no need to continue it into the fall.
  4. No arguing with Internet trolls after Labour Day. An occasional slip-up during a heat wave is understandable, but they grow louder and stronger if you feed them too much.
  5. No popsicles after Labour Day. Pumpkin spiced treats are now in season. It’s time to start warming up with them instead of cooling down with freezer snacks. Note: this rule doesn’t apply if you have a sore throat or are otherwise too sick to eat typical autumn meals.
  6. No Pinterest crafts after Labour Day. Pinterest season begins on the first of December and ends now. The next few months are your chance to relax and regroup before the next cycle of glitter revs up.
  7. No obligatory gift-giving after Labour Day. If you love buying presents for everyone you’ve ever met, great! There should be no such thing as obligatory gift-giving at this time of year, though. You have the complete freedom to expand or contract the list of people you buy for based on your budget, time constraints, personal preferences, (dis)interest in shopping, and any other criteria that matters to you.

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Suggestion Saturday: September 3, 2016

Suggestion Saturday Post Sep. 3Here is this week’s list of confessions, poems, comic strips, and other tidbits from my favourite corners of the web.

Only In My Dreams via nazmaniatweet‬. Confession: I had never heard of Debbie Gibson before I read this post. It was a spellbinding story, though.

If You Give a Man a Fish. Someone should start a site that takes other sayings to their logical conclusion. This was too funny.

Why We Should Celebrate Shyness. I loved this.

The Neuroscience of Mindfulness via bakadesuyo. What an interesting way of thinking about unhelpful thoughts.

On The Anniversary Of Emmett Till’s Death: Why The 1950s And ’60s Were Not ‘A Simpler Time’. Exactly. This is one of several reasons why I side-eye people who want to return to the good old days.Those days were anything but good for huge portions of the population. I don’t think nostalgic people realize exactly how much society has changed for the better since then.

From How to Feel Better When You’re Down (Without Forcing Yourself to Be Positive):

We all have our times with the negativity blanket. It’s not soft, warm, or big, but it’s so familiar.

From A Poem via beck1sm:

When that feeling knocks the door and you don’t want it anymore, close it tight, win the fight. You got this.

What have you been reading?

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Now Is Also the Perfect Time to Prepare for an Emergency

Thursday Blog Post Photo #2Last month I blogged about why now is the perfect time to start preparing for winter. Since September is National Preparedness Month, I thought I’d talk about preparing for emergencies with you today.

When I was a kid, my family had plans for what we’d do if there was a house fire, if a tornado touched down in our neighbourhood, if a severe thunderstorm knocked out our electricity for a few days, or if the Y2K bug ended up destroying modern civilization as we knew it by permanently confusing all of our computers.

We never had a fire, but we knew what to do when tornadoes touched down nearby or the electricity went out. As for Y2K, it was easily the least climactic apocalypse in recorded history. I slept through it all and woke up to a completely ordinary day in the futuristic year of 2000.

This tendency to plan ahead for possible emergencies stayed with me when I became an adult. One of the first conversations I had with my then-finance when we moved in together was how we should respond if a tornado touched down near the apartment building we lived in back then.

My spouse and I currently have enough supplies to look after ourselves for a few days if something bad happened in our neighbourhood and the grid was temporarily disrupted. I would like to add extra bottled water, nutritious food that doesn’t need to be cooked, and less common first aid supplies to our stash, but I’m mostly happy with what we have right now.

Emergency supplies are personal things, though. While everyone needs water and food, there are a lot of things that are highly dependent on your health, age, family size, and where you live.

Thursday Blog PostDepending on your situation, you might need diapers, baby food, pet food,  gasoline, enough prescription medication to last a few extra days, spare batteries for medical devices, or other necessary things that can be tough to find in an emergency. I know a few people whose medication needs to be kept at a specific temperature or whose medical devices need to be charged up or plugged into a wall in order to work. In these cases, it is even more important to plan ahead and know how you’ll meet those needs until help arrives.

You don’t have to buy everything at once either. I’ve slowly been accumulating needed items like flashlights that don’t need batteries to work and a fire extinguisher. There have also been occassions when I’ve ended up with certain items thanks to relatives who shared stuff with us.

I hope this post has inspired you to start thinking about preparing for the unexpected. The links I shared above have a lot more information about what to look for and how to make sure that you’ll have what you need if something dangerous happens. I’d love to know what kinds of things you have in your emergency kit as well as what you’re planning to add to it in the future!

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How Honeyguide Birds Talk to People

Video credit: BBSRC.

Honeyguide birds live in Mozambique. These birds have learned how to make a call to lead humans to bee nests. The humans harvest the honey, and the bird gets to eat the wax combs that are left behind.

I’m amazed that this relationship between humans and wild animals has developed. Wouldn’t it have been incredible to see this the first time humans and these birds realized they could work together to get a sweet treat?

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You Don’t Have to Like Everybody

Monday Blogs #3There are people in this world that you’ll like immediately.

You might warm to up other people over time as you get to know them better or as your circumstances change. It’s much easier to like someone when you’re not competing for the same cozy bread hole, for example.

At other times you’ll meet people that you’ll never learn to like at all.

Maybe your personalities will clash. Your values could be coming from such wildly different places that you’ll fail to find any common ground at all. Both of you might have interests that won’t overlap no matter how far you stretch them.

Likewise, there will be people in this world who like you instantly, gradually, or not at all.

None of these are bad things. It really is okay.

I know I’ve mentioned this before on my blog, but it bears repeating. You don’t have to like everybody. Not everyone has to like you, either.

Life isn’t that simplistic.

Not liking someone doesn’t mean you stop being polite to them, but admitting to yourself how you really feel about them can make it easier to treat them with kindness.

There’s something so freeing about loosening these expectations.

Friendship is a gift. It’s not something you can demand from someone or have demanded from you. Liking someone is also a gift, so it’s something you must decide to give. Demanding it would be like demanding a smile from someone who was frightened or sad. What you’d actually get in that situation would only share the most superficial resemblance to the real thing.

So relax and allow things to develop however they will. I promise that it will be okay.

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Suggestion Saturday: August 27, 2016

Here is this week’s list of tidbits from my favourite corners of the web.

What Trans Men See That Women Don’t. What an excellent article. I wish every man could experience something like this, just like I wish that white people could experience what it’s like to be a racial minority, straight people could be treated like a member of the LGBT community, etc. The world would be a much better place if people from majority groups had the chance to experience the less-pleasant parts of being outside the “mainstream” in some way.

Sundays at the Table via JAHesch‬. The twist at the end of this poem was my favourite part of it.

Here’s What Happens When “Beauty” Becomes “Duty.” This doesn’t surprise me one bit. Similar things are still happening on 2016.

Obey the Berry via thatgirlmsshe‬. Do you know how to tell when a raspberry is ripe? I especially enjoyed how this blogger tied picking raspberries into her everyday life.

Artificial Sweeteners Not as Sweet as You Think via colleen_m_story‬. I’ve suspected this for a while. It’s interesting to see what the latest research says about artificial sweeteners.

Stop Spending So Much Time In Your Head. I really need to learn how to do this.

What have you been reading?

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Thought Experiment: Exploring the Galaxy

pexels-photo-137219-largeMy friend Michael asked me this question a while ago. It was an interesting thought experiment and writing prompt, so I decided to share my answer with you today. I’d love to know how you’d answer it as well. Only time will tell if Michael is secretly an alien who wants to show us other planets, though. Ha!

If one of your friends turned out to be an alien hailing from the general vicinity of Betelgeuse, and offered to help you hitch a ride on the next spaceship to drop by, would you go?

It’s obvious in this scenario that there’s at least one other world out there that can support humanoid life. If someone from another planet could live on Earth for years without a problem, I don’t see why I couldn’t do the same. They clearly have the technology to travel from one place to the next, so I’d assume that I could always return home if I didn’t like it or if the living conditions didn’t agree with me for some reason.

It would be fascinating to see how life – intelligent or otherwise –  had developed elsewhere. Did my friend have to undergo any cosmetic surgery to look more human before they migrated here, or would every member of their species look more or less like a person on Earth from the outside? Could I blend into their society or another one like it? This sounds like a wonderful adventure to me.

If the planets I visited didn’t have intelligent life, what kinds of creatures could I find there? Earth has had many different kinds of animals and plants over its evolution. For the first three billion years or so, all of the life here was single-celled. I would be excited to look at those microbes through a microscope, although I’d might need extra safety equipment to survive on their surface if the temperature or atmosphere wasn’t right.

So, yes. Sign me up. I’m beyond ready for it.

 

 

 

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Cavemen Economics

This was one of the oddest and most thought-provoking things I’ve seen on the Internet lately. I can’t say much else about it without giving away spoilers, but I highly recommend checking it out.

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The Shortcomings of Skepticism

Monday Blogs Picture #1Someone found this blog recently by searching for this phrase. I don’t remember blogging about this before, and I thought it would make an excellent conversation piece. I’m looking forward to hearing what you have to say about it!

There are a lot of things that I admire about the modern skeptical movement: their intellectualism; their curiosity; their willingness to change their minds when presented with new evidence; their hesitation to take anything as the gospel truth regardless of who says it.

With that being said, it isn’t a perfect movement. Like any other group of people that is loosely tied together, skepticism has its own share of shortcomings.

  1. Not everyone who uses the skeptic label actually knows what they’re talking about. This isn’t something I blame on the skeptical movement itself, of course. It’s human nature to want to belong to a group, but I still cringe when people get into debates about topics they know almost nothing about or use skepticism as a cover for beliefs they have that aren’t actually supported by current scientific research. (This is one of the biggest reasons why I don’t jump into online debates about a lot of the things that skeptics debate. I don’t have enough scientific knowledge to argue the finer points with anyone!)
  2. Too much skepticism can devolve into cynicism. Is there something about our inquisitive personalities that leads so many skeptics to question absolutely everything? Quite possibly, but I don’t think it’s emotionally healthy to spend as much time on these things as I’ve seen with some of the skeptics I know. Sometimes you have to slow down, take a deep breath, and live in the moment.
  3. It’s not our job to control other people’s lives. I have relatives who swear by alternative medicine. They take all kinds of untested supplements and vitamin pills every day because they genuinely believe that those things will cure their health problems. Some of those pills are probably harmless, while others have been shown to increase the risks of certain diseases for users who take large doses like my relatives do. Do I insist that they stop? No. While I hope their health won’t ever be harmed by their choices, they’re adults. What they do with their bodies is their own business.
  4. It’s not our job to prove that other people are wrong about issue X. This urge was something that irritated me when I was a Christian and other believers tried to debate others into agreeing with them. It still bothers just as much now that I’m part of an entirely different group. While I completely understand the urge to set the record straight, I’ve become a much happier person since I decided to stop making this my job in life. People will either change their minds or they won’t. Arguing with them about it – especially online –  isn’t going to make a difference in the vast majority of cases.

I’m going to end this post with an old XKCD comic strip. As usual, the guy who makes them hit the nail on the head.

Monday blogs picture #4

 

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