Life After DOMA: Never Say Never

Gay_flag.svgThe only thing constant in life is change.

 –  François de la Rochefoucauld

Seventeen years ago the Defense of Marriage Act was enacted. I’m sure you’ve all heard by now that the Supreme Court (finally!) ruled it was unconstitutional yesterday.

Ten years ago I never thought something like this would happen in my lifetime.

Five years ago I hoped it would become possible in another generation.

Yesterday it happened.

Two days ago I winced when the Supreme Court essentially invalidated the Voting Rights Act of 1956. Someday that act will hopefully no longer be necessary, but I don’t think society has advanced enough to protect the voting rights of racial minorities in the U.S. without it.

I hope I’m wrong about that the same way I seriously misestimated how long DOMA and Prop 8 would stick around.

We will see.

Hope is the thing with feathers
That perches in the soul,
And sings the tune without the words,
And never stops at all.

– Emily Dickinson

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What social or political changes have you been most surprised by in your lifetime?

 

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After the Storm: Part Thirteen

Indian RuinsJust tuning in? Catch up with parts onetwo, threefour,  five,  six,  seveneightnineteneleven, and twelve of this story.

Rachel was relieved to see the rest of her family members slowly recovering, but she hated the restless stage of the healing process. The dangerous days and nights were behind them, and her youngest daughter and her husband were even well enough now to help Rachel with a few light chores. Now all she had to do was harvest enough food to keep everyone alive through the long, hot summer. They could butcher the sheep if it was absolutely necessary, but Rachel was beginning to figure out how her husband could so easily afford to replace them. It wasn’t something she wanted to think about, much less encourage.

With five grandchildren under the age of six and the hope of another one to come, it was amazing that the Everson clan had only lost one member. Naomi hadn’t exactly been welcomed into the family with open arms when McArthur’s punishment was publicized, but over the years the two women had unexpectedly forged a quiet friendship. Few people knew what it was like to live with MacArthur. It was hard to be alone  now.

Her grief would have to wait until the garden was harvested and the cheese delivered, though. MacArthur’s flock had been especially fertile last year and hopefully  the Everson family would have more than enough cheese to get them through the summer even with Daphne’s allotment. Rachel thought it would be better to deliver the summer wheel early than to feel tempted to shirk her duty if food stores ran low in July. It was shameful enough to be court-ordered to support her husband’s other children in the first place.

Lemon barked hello as Rachel walked up the path to Daphne’s house. She gave him a friendly pat on the head as he sniffed the well-wrapped bundle in her arms and followed her to the front yard. Daphne was sitting in the shade slicing vegetables. Her swollen knee was propped up on a small rock one of her sons had dragged over to the shade for her.

“I thought I’d drop this off a little early,” Rachel said. “Would you like me to put this in your larder?” Daphne nodded and smiled. Rachel came back outside bearing a fresh pitcher of water and two cups.

“You looked thirsty,” she said as she sat down. It wouldn’t hurt to sit down for a few minutes before going back to her noisy home. The women had just begun to hesitantly chat about the weather and the sorry state of Daphne’s knee when Ephraim, Isaac, and Felix walked up the path. Lemon raced ahead to greet them as Daphne and Rachel exchanged puzzled glances.

“We didn’t know what else to do,” Ephraim said, “but we couldn’t leave the boy alone and we didn’t have enough manpower to bring everyone with us.” He described the the poor condition of the rest of the Davenport household and told his mother about Lucio’s death. Isaac took the boy inside for a second breakfast while the other adults talked.

“Aren’t you worried about making the gods angry?” Rachel asked as she abruptly stood up. Her mind had replaced Lucio and the baby with the blanched faces of her own children and grandchildren while Ephraim described the burial. “There must be a reason half of his family is at death’s door when we only lost Naomi.”

“The gods aren’t always clear about what they want,” Isaac said as she hurried down the path to her own ill family.

“I don’t know how to help them,” Daphne said in a quiet voice. She couldn’t imagine how the three of them could do work that was intended for twice as many people or what the benefit would be of risking their own lives by breathing in that tainted air all day.

“You’re really going to leave them to die?” Isaac asked. He couldn’t believe what he was hearing.

“No, we can spare food and water, but we can’t send anyone to stay with them for more than a few minutes.” Even that concession was dangerous. Just because the disease had avoided the Lewis home for now doesn’t mean they would stay healthy.

“They can barely move, mom,” Isaac said. “They can’t remember to drink enough water, much less keep the fire stoked or send for help if someone else dies.”

“We have to take care of ourselves first. What good will we be to the boy if every adult near him is too sick to work?”

*****

Isaac waited until everyone was sleeping that night before silently standing up and gathering a few possessions. He’d sliced a few extra pieces of cheese off of the new wheel at suppertime, and when Lemon whined Isaac fed him a small snack to keep the dog quiet as he snuck out.

He had never seen such a large, bright moon hanging in the sky before. Before the Mingus Mountain community school closed for good Isaac and Ephraim briefly attended it. One of the few lessons Isaac remembered from his time there was about something called a super moon. It was said to amplify both good and bad luck, and he hoped this was a sign the Davenports didn’t need nighttime visits after all.

Had Isaac paid less attention to the moon he might have noticed the soldier lying perfectly still  next to the abandoned house a few feet away from him. As Isaac walked down the path the soldier silently followed him.

 

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Suggestion Saturday: June 22, 2013

Here is this week’s list of blog posts, poems, and other tidbits from my favourite corners of the web.  For the record, I’d be thrilled to include reader-suggested links in future Suggestion Saturday posts! Many of my favourite sites are taking summer hiatuses, and until yesterday evening my list of links for today’s post was fairly small.

From Does Our Culture Confuse “Healthy” People With “Good” People?

All of us are called to “take charge” of our health, as if health were a wild animal and we, out of sheer smarts and willpower, might tame it. “In a recent study,” we read, this or that berry fights cancer, this blend of fish oils helps the heart pump more efficiently, this pill will make you breathe better if you’re struggling, this other pill will make you feel better if you’re sad, this set of exercises will build bone density, don’t forget to take your calcium, practice yoga to release stress (which causes cancer and heartache, both of which can lead to premature death), and remember to break a sweat at least once a day or do some type of moderate to vigorous exercise a few times a week to help fight heart disease, high blood pressure, and any number of diseases waiting in your body that might kill you.

Doubt via AltThadeaux.Scroll down and click on index for all of his musings. Some of the pictures Alt uses to illustrate his thoughts are remarkably beautiful.

Why Don’t We Have More Productive Conversations Online? I wonder if this is why such a small percentage of readers comment on the blog posts and articles they visit each day?

What’s Wrong With via Sagecohen. My answer: absolutely nothing!

Setting Good Personal Boundaries via DaphnePurpus. One of the bravest blog posts I’ve ever read. I love how honest Daphne is about what triggers her and how committed she is to protecting herself. It can be tough to stick up for yourself when other people don’t understand why something bothers you, and I’m so glad to have her as a role model.

Adding Monsters to Thrift Store Paintings. Now this is a great way to add an eye-catching twist to what is otherwise fairly mundane art. I just hope none of the original artists are offended by other people changing their work.

 


In Born Weird a well-meaning grandmother gives each of her five grandchildren a special blessing at birth. Unfortunately, her blessings end up giving her grandkids powers that cause much more harm than good as they grow up.

The magical realism in this story is a great metaphor for the messiness of family life. It’s impossible to avoid the occasional misunderstanding or disagreement, and no one can raise a child without eventually regretting something.

What have you been reading?

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The Difference Between Gossip and Telling the Truth

Photo by Ildar Sagdejev.

Photo by Ildar Sagdejev.

This post is a response to Never Say Bad Things About People

Imagine living next door to someone whose front yard is falling apart. A beautiful, large tree towers over his house, but as its roots grew they began destroying the sidewalk. What used to be a smooth, flat surface is now an uneven jumble of sharp stone. Your neighbour, Mr. Murphy, knows that his yard is in terrible shape, but he loves the shade his tree provides and he only has enough strength to tend the vegetable garden in his backyard. He also believes that other people have the responsibility to avoid tripping when they walk past his house.

Moving into your new house took much longer than you expected, and it was nearly pitch black outside when you finally rummaged the last load of the moving van just as a gentle storm began. The final box was surprisingly heavy, and in your haste to get out of the rain you didn’t remember the slick, jagged edges of the sidewalk until it was too late.

You still have a scar on your leg from that night. Mr. Murphy made you a delicious apple pie after you arrived home from the hospital, but he refused to pay for your medical bills because he doesn’t think anyone should expect sidewalks to stay flat.

The next spring you noticed someone new moving in on the other side of Mr. Murphy’s house just after supper one night. She is visually impaired but can see large objects when she’s in a well-lit area. The sun is setting, and you see storm clouds rolling in as you chat with her.

Gossip is insisting that Mr. Murphy is an immoral human being who wants her to get hurt. If she knows what’s good for her she’ll never speak to him or accept any of the vegetables from his garden because they’re poisonous.

Telling the truth is warning her about the sidewalk. How she uses this information is up to her,  but at least she now knows how dangerous it is to walk there if you can’t see where you’re going.

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After the Storm: Part Twelve

Sonoran DesertJust tuning in? Catch up with parts onetwo, threefour,  five,  six,  seveneightnineten , and eleven of this story.

Daphne heard her left knee click as she gingerly stretched her legs and crawled out of bed. It was even more stiff and painful than usual, but the only strenuous activity she’d indulged in the day before was moving the drying racks from one end of the yard to the other.

She groaned and steadied herself against the wall before continuing on to the kitchen. Every step sent a flicker of pain deep into her joint. The boys would have to help Paige on their own today.

Ephraim and Isaac insisted on setting her up with a pitcher of water and assembling a cold breakfast for her first. They left her sitting in her favourite chair in front of the house with Lemon curled up sleeping beside her.

“How many bodies did you bury with Doc Porter?” Isaac asked once they’d rounded the bend. The last time a serious epidemic had hit Mingus Mountain he’d been too ill to attend the mass funerals and too young to dig graves even if he had been healthy.

“None,” Ephraim said. “There was one guy with a bad leg infection who is probably dead now, but all of the Docs patients were still alive when he sent me home.” Unlike his brother, Ephraim had seen a dead body before it was prepared for the next life once. Old Man Winterson’s nonsensical prophecies had once been the talk of the community. He claimed to speak for the gods, but once Daphne realized that the old man’s message swung from vivid predictions of mass starvation to peaceful descriptions of wolves nuzzling wild hares depending on how recently he’d  found something to eat she told her sons to ignore his ramblings. Isaac listened, Ephraim did not. It was because of his interest in Old Man Winterson’s conflicting messages that Ephraim discovered him curled up beside the courthouse, his favourite place for impromptu sermons, one afternoon while bringing a message to one of the adults inside the building. The old man was caked in dust and sweat, but in death his face has lost its fearful, angry edge. If this was peace Abraham had found it.

Isaac was a little disappointed by his brother’s response. The thought of wrapping up a dead baby and burying it creeped him out a little. Yes, it was sad that he died, but this sort of thing happened to almost every family eventually.

The Davenport’s yard smelled like stale urine and rotting vegetables. Ephraim shouted a customary hello as they approached the front door, but no one answered them. The stench grew stronger when they entered the dark, still house. Now a new scent tickled their noses: stale blood.

No one had banked the fire the night before, and the overflowing ashes were cool to the touch. Once their eyes adjusted to the dim light Isaac noticed a small bundle wrapped in a dirty blanket lying on the kitchen table.

“Hello,” said a small voice. Felix’s greasy curls hung limply over his pale face.

“Hi Felix,” Ephraim said as he slid his knapsack to the floor and kneeled down to greet the boy. “We’re here to help your grandmother with something. Can you tell us where she is?”

“Everybody’s sleeping,” he said with a shrug as he motioned to the bedroom. Ephraim felt a chill shudder down his spine as he exchanged nervous glances with his brother.

“Isaac brought you some lunch. Why don’t you two go out into the yard and eat while I wake them up?”

“Ok,” said Felix. He’d long since finished the last of the bread, and when the fire ran out of fuel he couldn’t figure out an alternative way to crack open the small, hard nuts that were all that remained of the family’s larder.

Ephraim rummaged a small lamp from the kitchen, lit it, and opened the bedroom door. He waited for his eyes to adjust before entering the small, stifling room, but immediately he heard the slow crackle of someone struggling to breathe. Nevaeh’s glassy eyes stared through him as he slowly circled the room.

“We’re here to help,” Ephraim said. She didn’t seem to notice he was there. It wasn’t until he knelt down to tuck a blanket around Lucio  that he noticed the young father’s blue lips and cool skin. He wiped away a dribble of blood on Lucio’s cheek and gently lifted the blanket over his head. Delphine and their three-year-old daughter, Wilma, were emaciated and sleeping so deeply Ephraim had trouble rousing them, but they were breathing much more easily than Nevaeh. Paige woke up startled when she heard Ephraim talking to the living in a low, steady voice. She was momentarily disoriented, but her fever was mild and her breathing steady. It was funny how this fever tended to affect the young and healthy much more severely than other groups.

Ephraim and Isaac had only intended to stay for an hour,but It took all morning to scrub down the kitchen and quickly bury Lucio and little Malachi. After breakfast and a much-needed bath Felix curled up next to his sister. Ephraim knew the sick should be quarantined, but there were no other safe places for the boy to sleep while the adults worked. If he’d survived this long without catching it he probably wouldn’t get sick anyway.

“They’re dangerous ill,” Ephraim quietly confided to his brother as they lugged the final jugs of dirty water to the edge of the yard and tipped them out. “And I don’t want to risk bringing this disease home to mom. I know this fever doesn’t seem to spread like normal diseases, but the gods could change their minds about that at any point.”

“What will we do, then?”

“We could bring the boy home with us temporarily. He’s healthy and strong for his age even if he’s two-souled.”

“And leave the rest to die?” Isaac couldn’t believe what he was hearing. Ephraim was usually the more sensitive twin.

“No, we’d visit them every morning with food and water before we went out to finish the harvesting. No herb can save them, and if we don’t breathe in too much of their poisoned air we probably won’t get sick.”

“I don’t like the sound of this plan. What if coyotes attack or there’s a fire? They’d never be strong enough to get away from it.”

“Well, what do you suggest we do then?”

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Suggestion Saturday: June 15, 2013

Before we begin this week’s list of recommendations, remember the Ask account I mentioned signing up for in Thursday’s post? I’m having a blast asking and answering questions every day! Click on the link above if you want to know about a few of the naughty things I did as a little girl. 😀

What If We Took Every Marriage Proposal Seriously? True story: I (jokingly) proposed to Drew before we ever met in person. We chatted on a message board called The Ooze for about six months before he came to visit me, and I liked his ideas so much that I developed a crush on him without even knowing what he looked like. A year and a day after we met in person we got married. This link is work-safe, the rest of the site is not.

Is it Time to Say Sorry? via SatyaRobyn. Why love is a more powerful motivator than shame. If only more people realized this!

From Privacy Matters:

And this brings me to the crux of this post: privacy matters. We each need the space and time to be alone with our own thoughts. We also need the space and time to express our inner most thoughts and feelings to friends, family and comrades. Where there is no real privacy, there can be no true democracy.

Hold Close. Imagine telling a story without using any words. It might be a little too short to be officially classified as a graphic novel, but this piece is not to be missed.  This link is work-safe, the rest of the site is not.

The Avant-Garde Art of Book Stacking in Stores of Japan. How cool is this? I hereby reserve the right to dedicate a room to stacking books if I ever become wealthy.

Oh Son, That’s Not How You Do Adulthood. The best part about being an adult is not having to ask permission for these things.

Alien Invasion? No, It’s Just a Massive Supercell Storm. Check out the video embedded in this link. Tornadoes have always frightened me, but even I have to admit it’s cool to watch supercell storms move across the sky.

 


Do you know what (not) to say to families affected by terminal illnesses? The Still Point of the Turning World describes how the author, Emily Rapp, survived emotionally after her only child was diagnosed with Tay-Sachs disease.

Ms. Rapp tells happy, heartbreaking, and frustrating stories about her son’s short life and explains why certain comments (“I could never do what you do,” “When God closes a door he opens a window,” “What’s wrong with your baby?”)  were so unhelpful and offensive for her family.

Few of us will ever know what it’s like to walk in her shoes, but listening is a crucial life skill. It starts by reading books on topics you will (probably) never personally experience and believing what the people who live through it have to say. This was a fantastic book, and I really hope all of my readers give it a try.

What have you been reading?

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Mailbag #11

Anonymous asks:

What are some things that you are skeptical about in relation to other people?

1) Love at first sight. Infatuation can happen instantly, but I don’t think it’s possible to love someone you’ve just met (unless they’re a newborn and closely related to you). We all need time to get to know that person in a wide variety of situations because a huge part of loving someone is knowing them so well that you don’t have to ask how they’d react if their dog started quoting Shakespeare or marshmallows fell from the sky. You already know the answer.

Everyone is lovable to someone, of course, but no one loves every single person they meet. There simply isn’t enough time in the day to get to know the dozens (hundreds? thousands?) of people you regularly interact with that well.

2) The death of trick-or-treating. I’ve never had a neighbour child knock on my door to ask for candy at Halloween. It still happens to an extent out in the suburbs, but every year I’m a little sad that I don’t get to pass out the good candy and compliment the kids with creative costumes.  I was really looking forward to that stage in life, and I can’t understand why this tradition is fading away. Am I the only one who thinks there’s something wrong here? Halloween is the best holiday of the year! 🙂

3) Social media over-sharing. STFUParents and STFUCouples are prime examples of this. I know I’m a very private person about certain matters, but I can’t fathom how anyone would ever find it appropriate to share a photo of their child’s latest bowel movement or a graphic description of the sexual acts they wish to perform on their spouse or partner in such a public setting. To me it’s like sitting at Thanksgiving dinner, having your great-uncle ask what’s new in your life, and proceeding to share one of these stories. It’s not that changing your kid’s diaper or having a healthy sex life is shameful, I just don’t understand having such flimsy boundaries that you think it’s ok to invite everyone you know into those private moments.

On an unrelated note, I just signed up for an account at Ask.fm. It accepts anonymous questions from anyone, but if you decide to sign up for your own account (or if you have one already), let me know in the comment section!

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After the Storm: Part Eleven

Photo by Mike.

Photo by Mike.

Just tuning in? Catch up with parts onetwo, threefour,  five,  six,  seveneightnine, and ten of this story.

“The house is clean,” said the man as he walked out of Daphne’s house. “Their only weapons were a few hunting knives, and we found no evidence of extra people living here.” The woman standing outside the door nodded.

“Call off your dog and we’ll leave,” she said. When Daphne clicked her tongue Lemon looked up expectantly. He still hadn’t figured out where the strange man was hiding his cheese, but he could smell the remnants of it. Isaac wrapped his muscular arms around the dog’s neck and gently tugged him away. The motley crew slowly dribbled away from the house, but as they walked down the dusty path to the main road one of the youngest soldiers turned around to stare at the woman and boys who were watching them leave.

There was something off about this family. If only they’d found some scrap of evidence to warrant further investigation. As they walked away his commanding officer slowed down her pace until he caught up with her.

In a low, quiet voice she gave him his orders for the next few days.

*****

Paige limped up the path to Daphne’s house, her long, white hair slowly wriggling free of its braid. She wore a tunic smeared with a dry, light brown substance Daphne couldn’t quite identify, and she leaned heavily on her walking stick as the younger woman approached her. It was quite unusual for Paige to walk this far at all, much less on her own at the hottest part of the day. Nevaeh normally travelled with her mother on the rare occasions that she needed to walk more than a few miles.

“Would you like some water?” Daphne asked, a little surprised that anyone would come looking for her at her home during harvest time. If not for her tender knee, Daphne would have been digging up the harvest with her sons this afternoon, but there had been so few visitors lately that no one knew it had been bothering her again.

The woman nodded. Daphne ushered her inside for a cup of warm, stale well water. Lemon was  sleeping soundly underneath the kitchen table, but he opened one groggy eye and thumped his tail in recognition of the family’s closest neighbour.

“No one’s sick here,” Paige said with a note of surprise. She’d always held a sneaking suspicion that the gods were just. Surely they would show more mercy to a woman who worshipped them and followed even their most heartbreaking rules than to someone who did not.

“No, we’ve been lucky so far,” Daphne said as she set the cups down. “How are you?”

“We need help,” Paige said. The sickness had struck her household particularly harshly. The baby had slipped away quietly. While his father, older brother, and sister seemed to be on the mend, Paige could not say the same thing for her daughter or granddaughter. She described her long, gruelling days caring for a house full of sick relatives as her grandson-in-law staggered through the harvesting process. Only one other neighbour had been within walking distance for an old woman with a bad hip, and he had been too overwhelmed with his own sick family and overripe harvest to offer any assistance. As much as she privately disliked Daphne, Paige had no choice but to ask for help.

Daphne listened to Paige’s story quietly. Last year she and her sons had finished their harvesting and food preservation with time to spare, but now only two of them were physically able to carry those heavy baskets home. Once her sons came home this afternoon she’d be busy drying and preserving everything as quickly as possible before insects or mould snatched away months of hard work.

“We can’t help with your harvest until ours is finished,” Daphne said. Food shortages were on the way, and if she didn’t look out for her own family they’d starve over the summer. “But we can help you bury the baby.”

“How soon will you be finished?” Paige was in no position to argue.

“A few weeks,” Daphne said. “Although once the harvesting portion is completed I’ll be able to spare one of my boys while the other one helps me preserve the rest of our provisions.”

Would her crops hold? Paige could only hope so. The pitiful amount she’d managed to put away so far wouldn’t keep her family alive for more than a week.

*****

Melvin Watts inched the notebook out of his boot as the old woman walked by and dutifully jotted down a description of her. He was too far away to hear their conversation, of course, but she was the first visitor this house had seen in the past two days. Before he heard her hobbling up the path Melvin had been resting his eyes in the shade of the rocks he had wiggled in between. His dusty uniform and naturally light brown hair blended in well with his surroundings. It wasn’t quite camouflage, but it was difficult to see him if you weren’t expecting to find a tall, thin boy lying down in the dirt.

Melvin’s commanding officer had insisted this family was hiding something, but so far his surveillance had turned up nothing. Privately he doubted the two old women were in cahoots but orders were orders, and it was better to earn a sunburn through boredom than on the battlefield.

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Suggestion Saturday: June 8, 2013

Here is this week’s list of blog posts, poems, short stories, singing birds, and other tidbits from my favourite corners of the web.

Why Vulnerability Doesn’t Really Suck (From a Confessed Sore Loser). This blogger eloquently discusses how scary it is for them to open up emotionally to others. The post is work-safe, but I can’t say the same thing for everything in the archives.

Celladora. Making love is an old-fashioned phrase, but if anything can bring it back in vogue it will be this poem. NSFW.

Dilemma. Should anything be spent on futile care when you live in a society with extremely limited medical resources?

Single Parents: Male and Female via Mediocreventure. My friend Sarah found something depressing while doing Internet searches about single parents. I’ll share some of my results here and rest in the comment section of her post.

Single dads are hot

Single dads are different

Single moms are bad

Single moms are strong

Single moms are selfish

From Call Girl:

For a long time now, private clubs, custom services, and other forms of high–class entertainment haven’t been able to satisfy him. He’s been looking for special experiences, like this girl. The web site described her this way: I sell stories. Special. Expensive. No substitutes. You must come in a beat–up car. You must bring enough money. No matter what happens, you may never come see me again.

From Is Anybody Employable?

 But even my peers are worried if somebody snaps a picture of them holding a beer can at the cottage, dressed in a catsuit at a sci-fi convention, or acting silly with kids at the family reunion. Your creativity, your spontaneity, your whimsy? It’s bad for the company’s image.

And expressing controversial opinions? Are you sure you want to take that kind of risk? After all, it’s a bad economy. Better to just stay silent if you want to land a job. Better to keep your mouth shut and be glad for the work you’ve got.

It’s out of hand. Technology gives employers aspects to things that don’t belong in the professional realm – our adolescent diaries, our family photo albums, the spats we had with friends in junior high.

This is one of the funniest videos I’ve ever watched:



In a Perfect World a whirlwind romance with a widowed pilot would end with everyone living happily ever after, but Jiselle marries Mark and becomes a stepmother to his three children just as the Phoenix Flu ignites.

Longterm readers know I’m a huge fan of scifi and post-apocalyptic fiction but sometimes these genres can be a little dramatic. What I love about In a Perfect World was how subdued the scifi and post-apocalyptic elements were in the story. 

Yes, there is an extremely dangerous flu that is slowly killing off more and more people, but this book is much more interested in the emotional bond forming between Jiselle and her new family than it is in the gruesome effects of a brand new virus.

What have you been reading?

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Overthinking Chicken or the Egg

Chicken or the Egg from KIMWU on Vimeo.

This is a ridiculously cute short film about a pig who falls in love with a chicken. Eggs used to be his favourite food, but he stops eating them for her sake.

The temptation to cave in is always with him, though. As much as he loves her, he really misses those eggs and he’d eat them in a second if he thought he could get away with it.

What I found really interesting about this film is that Mr. Pig never talks to her about any of this. He assumes he knows how she feels and what she thinks, and he bases all of his decisions about their life together on these assumptions.

I have mixed emotions about this piece.

1) It’s sad to see the pig give up something that gave him so much happiness. Will he wake up 20 years from now with regrets, or is his self-denial a positive thing?

2) I wonder what Ms. chicken would have said if Mr. Pig had asked her what she thought of  eating eggs? They were almost certainly unfertilized, so it wasn’t as if Mr. Pig was eating chicken embryos.

3) And eggs are suddenly quite unappetizing. 😉

What do you think?

 

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