A man went about the community telling malicious lies about the rabbi. Later, he realized the wrong he had done, and began to feel remorse. He went to the rabbi and begged his forgiveness, saying he would do anything he could to make amends…
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Almost everyone who has ever met me in person has at one point or another said, “Lydia, you’re so quiet!”
It’s true. I am quiet.
Maybe part of it is because I’m an introvert and my energy lasts longer in social situations when I speak less.
Part of it is because I don’t always know what to say. Sometimes I don’t have an opinion on topic X, or I feel an embryonic poem or short story quivering on the tip of my tongue, or I’m enjoying listening to everyone else talk too much to chime in.
And part of it is because words are permanent. You can almost always say it later but you can never take it back if you’ve made an incorrect assumption or judgment of the situation.
So I listen first, try to absorb all of the available information before forming an opinion.
Your challenge this week, should you choose to accept it, is to listen twice as long as you did last week before speaking up.
Maybe it will work for you, maybe it won’t. The only way to know is to try! 😉