I’ll Show You My Reading List If You Show Me Yours

Who else is running low on new books to read?

I’m a genre omnivore. I’ve been reading quite a few non-fiction books about psychology and sociology recently, but most of them haven’t been capturing my attention longterm.

Genres I love:

  • Science fiction
  • Medical nonfiction
  • Science
  • Fairy tales
  • Psychology

Genres I have the occasional, sordid fling with:

  • History
  • Fantasy
  • Romance
  • True stories about mischevious pets that you just know are going to die of cancer/old age/stupidity in the final chapter.

What I’ve read recently that was really good:

  • “Dirty Secret: A Daughter Comes Clean About Her Mother’s Compulsive Hoarding by Jessie Sholl.
  • “The Blue Castle” by L.M. Montgomery.
  • “Spare Parts” by Joshua Davis.

Can you recommend any books for me?

If you post a brief list of the genres you like, I’ll do the same for you!

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My Dear Gnome

My Dear Gnome from ChezEddy on Vimeo.

This is a short film about a garden gnome and a deer who decide to play a game of checkers.

I was impressed by how much storytelling ChezEddy fit into about one minute.

I can’t say anything else about this video without giving away spoilers. Go check it out for yourselves!

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Who Is Jonah Skeptic?

Photo credit: Marco Bellucci.

Photo credit: Marco Bellucci.

Jonah Skeptic.

His name showed up in my Google Analytics report recently.

I wish I knew who he really was.

I can’t find anything about him online.

He’s probably not even an actual person, but he sure should be with a name like that. It’s a great one.

I almost let this post die quietly in my queue so I could keep the pseudonym for myself. I barely spend any time writing about religion or atheism, though, and I also think it’s a good thing for women to identify themselves as women online as much as possible.

Are there people who will treat you differently because of this? Of course. But I do think there’s something to be said for standing up and being counted if you’re able to do so.

Jonah Skeptic sounds brash to me. Is he kind of person who veers Thanksgiving dinner conversations into arguments about politics, religion, and money? Does he ask pointed questions about other people’s sex lives when they ask him why he’s still single?

He probably likes to say shocking things for the fun of it and drinks Scotch in front of teetotallers.

No doubt he despises sentimentality in all of its forms….except when it comes to snuggling with his childhood teddy bear, Ursus, at night. No one is ever too cynical or too old for that.

He has a snarky exterior, but I’d bet he’s the kind of person who picked up both of his cats from the local animal shelter.

There’s something satisfying about giving Jonah Skeptic a backstory. It makes him more likeable and me a little less disappointed that he doesn’t already exist. If he ever shows up in my Analytics history again, I’ll add a few more sneak peeks into his past.

What personal mysteries have you solved lately?

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Suggestion Saturday: March 21, 2015

Here is this week’s list of blog posts, poems, and other tidbits from my favourite corners of the web.

Back in the Shack via jdubqca. I really liked the imagery in this poem. It reminds me of the hikes my parents used to take with us when we were kids. We never found a shack like this one, but we did discover some pretty cool caves.

Fire Safety 101 via electricfire89. Did you see the twist coming?

California Will be Bone Dry in a Year, NASA’s Top Water Scientist Predicts via Buffytuf. I expect their drought to raise U.S. food prices and possible lower the cost of (some) Californian real estate. It’s hard to live somewhere that doesn’t have water, after all.

Modern Curses. All of them would be incredibly annoying.

Rogue Wounds. I was fascinated by the stories in this article.

Google Feud. This game challenges you to guess what other people have googled. You’re given the beginning of the question or phrase and then have to provide the final word. It was a lot of fun.

From Fixed Menu:

The most coveted items on the tray are the salt and pepper packets. Every person I surveyed, without fail, used the word “bland” in describing chow hall food. Rather than prepare separate trays for inmates with high cholesterol or blood pressure, the kitchen serves low-sodium meals for the entire prison population.

What have you been reading?

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Color Me Evil

Here’s the only hint I’m going to give you about this short film: evil is pink.

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Are We Losing Our Attention Spans?

Photo by Yathin S Krishnappa.

Photo by Yathin S Krishnappa.

This weekend my favourite husband and I finally got around to watching The Hunger Games: Mockingjay – Part 1 because we don’t mind being a little behind on popular movies if it means seeing them at a quarter of the cost it would be to go to the movie theatre on opening weekend. (Wow, that sounds like the kind of stuff my parents said when I was growing up. Isn’t it bizarre when that happens?)

I really enjoyed the trilogy the Hunger Games movies are based on, and the first two movies were great as well.

This time around, though, I felt restless. I don’t want to give away spoilers for anyone who hasn’t read the books or watched the movies, but certain events from Mockingjay were stretched out a little too much for my tastes. They could have easily all fit into one movie if the filmmakers had made it a little longer than normal.

Drew completely disagreed. He liked having more time to feel the rising tension of everything that’s happening to Katniss and the other rebels.

“I think we’re losing our attention spans,” he said as we discussed this. He liked having time to savour  the storyline. I wanted more action.

Did we agree? No, but he made me think.

Are we losing our attention spans?

I know I’m quick to pull out my cellphone when I’m waiting somewhere boring. It has almost everything I need to stay entertained whether I’m stuck in that situation for ten minutes or an hour. There is also something to be said for looking extraordinarily busy in certain parts of Toronto to avoid unwanted attention.

I also only tend to give books a dozen pages or so to catch my interest before I move on the next one. To be fair, though, I’ve always been like this. Life is far too short to waste time on books you’re only half-interested in.

What do you think? How has your attention span changed over the last decade or two?

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Suggestion Saturday: March 14, 2015

Here is this week’s list of blog posts, jokes, and other tidbits from my favourite corners of the web.

Spring Is Just Around the Corner. Did you spot it?

Rhymes with Cat via K8Tilton. All you have to do is think of 38 one syllable words that rhyme with cat in three minutes. It’s tougher than it looks.

Bad Reasons For Going Vegan via JillDeTrabajos. This is the funniest thing I’ve read in a long time.

Young, Black, and Victorian via DangerMindsBlog. Who else is fascinated by old pictures? If only there were a way to know the names of these women or what they did with their lives.

He Doesn’t Wanna Be Here. What a heartbreaking, beautiful essay. It makes me so glad that both of my siblings are healthy and doing well in life.

What Really Happened to Baby Johan? Some of the details of this case are disturbing. It was a fascinating read, but I wanted my followers to be prepared for some unpleasantness before they click on the link.

What have you been reading?

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6 Signs of Spring

1. For those of us with seasonal allergies: ACHOO!

2. Dogs no longer need to wear boots outdoors.

3. It’s suddenly too warm to walk down the street with your winter coat zipped up.

4. Stores are beginning to advertise their new summer collections.

5. Street preachers, performers, solicitors, and scammers are back.

6. So much snow has melted that the sidewalks are almost back to their original size. You can walk alongside someone now without bumping into people walking in the opposite direction.

For all of my readers in the northern hemisphere, what are the signs of spring you’ve noticed in your area?

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The Walking Cure

The weather here in Toronto has warmed up enough to remind us that spring is coming but not so much that walking around outside was at all comfortable. Knowing that this is my peak time of year for cabin fever helped, but I still felt restless and frustrated.

I had a headache that lasted for almost the entire weekend. I could almost make it go away with over-the-counter painkillers, sleep, and many cups of herbal tea, but it kept raging back to life.

In short, it was a grumpy weekend at my house. When I feel that way, I respond by saying as little as possible. My bad mood is one hundred percent my responsibility. No one else should be expected to handle it.

You have to stay in shape. My grandmother, she started walking five miles a day when she was 60. She’s 97 today and we don’t know where the hell she is. – Ellen DeGeneres

Still, I did wonder at first what Drew was thinking when he invited me on a walk. He’s even less thrilled with this kind of weather than I am.

It was 2 C outside and sunny, though, which is much better than it’s been lately. I said yes. The medicine was working again, and I wanted to see if it could finally clear away all of my discomfort.

The nice thing about talking a walk is that you don’t have to carry on a conversation while you’re doing it. You can, of course, but there’s also something to be said for silence.

The streets were a little more crowded than I expected for a Sunday afternoon. Large piles of dirty snow had been shoved to the edge of the sidewalk. Long-forgotten garbage was poking out of some of them. Several frozen puddles of vomit dotted the sidewalk.

There was also a dazzlingly white poodle trotting down the street, though. If she were human, I would have sworn she was smiling.

I also noticed two parents taking a walk with their son. A stranger stopped them to guess the boy’s age.

“Eight?”

“No,” the parents laughed. “He’s tall for his age.”

Walking is my main method of relaxation. I don’t go over my lines or try to solve the world’s problems, I just enjoy the scenery and the wildlife. – Kevin Whately

True, most of the wildlife in downtown Toronto is pigeon-shaped, but occasionally you’re surprised with something else. I’ve seen raccoons, rats, and butterflies.

There are always dogs of every shape and size you can imagine. Their impeccable manners never fail to impress me. The dogs I grew up with were never dangerous, but they were liable to jump on you in excitement or bark at a stranger. Toronto dogs don’t do that. At most, you might find one who nuzzles his or her way into a petting session.

Walking is good exercise, but I’ve found that it’s also good for the mind.

I love walking down the street and seeing faces and drama and happiness and sadness and dirt and cleanliness. – Ric Ocasek

It’s hard to stay in a funky mood when there are so many interesting people and animals to watch. You catch tidbits of conversations. You see couples argue, fathers kissing their babies, trees rustling in the breeze, and dogs pausing to sniff buildings that have been around for a hundred years.

Walking is incredibly relaxing. I’d almost forgotten just how good it makes me feel. By the end of our trip, my headache was gone and I was no longer feeling irritated.

I know most of my examples are of things that normally only happen in urban areas, but walking through the woods or down the main street of a small town is just as nice. If you have any stories about walks you’ve taken in any environment, I’d love to hear them!

Remember:

Everywhere is within walking distance if you have the time. – Steven Wright

 

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Suggestion Saturday: March 7, 2015

Here is this week’s list of blog posts, poems, tardy passes, and other tidbits from my favourite corners of the web.

On the River. This looks like one of the final scenes of a fantasy adventure novel. The heroes have slayed the dragon and buried their dead. All that remains now is to paddle up the final river and see what awaits them at home. Will their families be standing on the shore to greet them? How will they adjust to an ordinary, safe life after all they’ve seen and done? Sometimes it feels like the fantasy genre spends so much time focusing on the mission that it overlooks these kinds of questions.

Guerilla Tardy Passes Appear on the TTC. I found one last weekend and took it home. Funny stuff.

Chewing on Art via geofflepard. Before you click on this link, think about how you react to seeing a wad of used, dried out gum on the street.

Life is Not a Test via ChristyBarongan. There’s something to be said for knowing what you aren’t.

Sing Me Your Scars. One of the most interesting science fiction stories I’ve read in a long time. It does include some elements of the horror genre as well, but it isn’t gory.

From Faux Dentifrice via joshuamneff:

i will set this day on fire with the curiosity of a cat

the day oh this day with a fruitful fire

What have you been reading?

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