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Wednesday Weekly Blogging Challenge: A Typical Day in My Life

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A white person wearing a light orange, long-sleeved shirt is typing on a laptop while sitting on a couch. This is what a typical day in my life looks like not counting the usual stuff like making breakfast or checking the mail:

15-20 minutes of studying Spanish in the morning either on Duolingo or by consuming Spanish media (music, tv shows, films, etc).

A 30 minute morning workout. It will most often be kickboxing, weightlifting, or a maybe a walk if I’m not feeling great. Occasionally, yoga or dancing might replace one of these activities. Evening workouts can interfere with my sleep schedule, so mornings it is.

Writing. I try to get in a few hours of writing a day on average. Due to my migraines, this means that some days are more like seven or eight hours of writing while others include very little of it.

Volunteering. This, too, varies by day. It’s done virtually and could be as short as five minutes or as long as a few hours. So much relies on how long a to-do list is and how much time I have to check things off from it!

Chores. This is maybe 30 minutes to three hours a day, depending on whether or not the laundry basket is full and how many loads of laundry I might need to do. Chores always include washing multiple rounds of dishes since we don’t own a dishwasher and have a tiny drying rack. It might also include going grocery shopping, mailing a birthday card to a relative, picking up a prescription or other necessary goods at the pharmacy, calling the doctor or dentist, cleaning the bathroom, dusting, sweeping, etc. You know, the typical stuff adults do to keep things running smoothly that kids don’t think about when they wish they, too, were grownups.

A short lunchtime walk, if possible. It’s good to stretch my legs after a morning of (mostly) sitting.

A focused afternoon. Anything I didn’t finish in the morning is something I try to return to and wrap up ibefore dinner.

15-20 minutes of studying Spanish in the evening. It’s a nice way to wind down, and I’m getting a much stronger grasp of that language with all of the time I’ve invested into it.

Batch cooking. About twice a week I’ll make something that keeps well like spaghetti, tacos, shepherd’s pie, or a stir-fry that I can eat for lunch or for dinner over the next 2-3 days.

Maybe an evening walk? Sometimes this happens, and sometimes it doesn’t depending on the weather and how I’m feeling.

 

Migraines are the main thing that interrupts this schedule. Screen time is a known trigger for many people’s migraines, and my medical professionals have told me to really keep an eye on it and limit screen time when I can for that reason.  It’s hard for me to focus when I’m having one anyways, so those days are meant for lying still in a room that is as dark and quiet as possible.

So if my body is anywhere in the migraine cycle, I put off everything I possibly can for a couple of days and get as much rest as I can. I’m quite fortunate to have the ability to do this, and it’s one reason why I push myself to get so much done on the good days.

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Top Ten Tuesday: Characters Who Share My First Name

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I struggled with the original topic for this week, “Favorite Secondary/Minor Characters,” because I’ve been reading more nonfiction lately. Therefore, I’m going rogue. 

When I was a teenager, someone called out my name at an amusement park. I turned around only to see a man talking to his young daughter. This was the only time during my childhood that I can recall someone saying Lydia and not meaning me!

Here are ten books that include characters named Lydia.

How common is it for you to find your first name used for fictional characters or in real life to draw the attention of someone who isn’t you?

 

Book cover for Love for Lydia by H.E. Bates. Image on cover is a painting of a man wearing a suit and sitting in a restaurant or bar listening to a woman sing on stage. This looks like it was painted in the 1920 due to the flapper-style dress she is wearing.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

1. Love for Lydia by H.E. Bates

 

Book cover for A Home for Goddesses and Dogs by Leslie Connor. Image on cover shows a drawing of a young blonde white girl who is snuggling with her yellow dog.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

2. A Home for Goddesses and Dogs by Leslie Connor

 

Book cover for How to Be a Girl in the World by Caela Carter. Image on cover is a drawing of several multi-story buildings on a street. Above them the cloudy sky takes precedence in this drawing and fills up about 80% of the available space

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

3. How to Be a Girl in the World by Caela Carter

 

Book cover for The Paper Museum by Kate S. Simpson. Image on cover is a drawing of a cave dug into the side of a hill. There is warm yellow light spilling out of the cave into the dusky night air and a large stone building, possibly a museum, in the distance.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

4. The Paper Museum by Kate S. Simpson

 

Book cover for Lydia, Queen of Palestine by Uri Orlev. Image on cover shows a preteen aged white girl sitting on a red throne. She’s wearing a gold crown and a comically oversized red and white robe.

 

 

 

 

 

5. Lydia, Queen of Palestine by Uri Orlev

 

Book cover for An Accomplished Woman by Jude Morgan. Image on cover shows a small black and white photo of a nineteenth century woman who is wearing a dress and has a serious expression on her face.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

6. An Accomplished Woman by Jude Morgan

 

Book cover for The Education of Lydia by Charles X. Wolffe. Image on cover shows a young white blonde woman with short hair who is wearing a 1960s style short blue dress and holding one arm as she turns gently away from the viewer.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

7. The Education of Lydia by Charles X. Wolffe

 

Book cover for The Testaments (The Handmaid's Tale, #2) by Margaret Atwood. Image on cover shows a young woman wearing a white bonnet and a green cloak. Her face is obscured by the bonnet.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

8. The Testaments (The Handmaid’s Tale, #2) by Margaret Atwood

 

Book cover for Everything I Never Told You by Celeste Ng. Image on cover shows the title and author’s name written on scraps of yellow, white, and orange paper.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

9. Everything I Never Told You by Celeste Ng

 

Book cover for China Trade (Lydia Chin & Bill Smith #1) by S.J. Rozan. Image on cover shows a Chinese city just after dusk with lamplights and streetlights glowing against a dark blue sky.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

10. China Trade (Lydia Chin & Bill Smith #1) by S.J. Rozan

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Wednesday Weekly Blogging Challenge: Something I Wish I Knew More About

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Media training is something I wish I knew more about.

Closeup photo of a microphone lying on a soundboard, presumably in a recording studio. I’ve read that public figures of all sorts were traditionally taught how to speak to the media early on in their careers.  As in, shortly before  they were signed to a record label, decided to run for office, chosen as a new player for a sports team, had their book approved for publication, or  experienced something similarly life changing, they were given lessons on how to talk to reporters and how to steer a conversation away from matters they’d rather not discuss.

(Modern social media stars unfortunately don’t seem to receive this same training in many cases).

I promise I am not trying to make this a political post in any way! I’m simply fascinated by how people can so smoothly steer a conversation in the way they want it to go even when they’re asked about possibly painful topics by a reporter who has been trained to get a straight answer.

One of the things I’ve read about media training is that public figures are told to answer the question they wish they were asked instead of the one they were actually asked.

So, for example, if so-and-so is asked why their latest album didn’t sell as many copies as was expected, they might pivot to talk about the incredible writers and producers who worked on that project with them or maybe they’ll tell a story about a fan who approached them and said that a certain song was life changing instead.

This can be used for much more serious topics as well, of course.

I’m fascinated by how well this can work, why it still sometimes fails, and want to learn more. It’s not how I approach conversations at all either as the person asking questions or the person answering them.

If anyone has any personal insight into how this type of communication plays out, I’d love to hear your thoughts.

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Top Ten Tuesday: Foliage and Flower Crowns on Book Covers

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May Flowers was the topic for this week, so I decided to hunt down some book covers that have people wearing crowns of foliage or flowers on them.

This is something I’ve seen occasionally in films or books, but I have never seen it done in real life by anyone I know. Perhaps it’s an older custom? Or maybe it’s something done in parts of the world I haven’t visited yet?

Have you ever worn a crowns of flowers or other foliage in your hair or seen someone else do the same thing?

Book cover for Song of the Sparrow by Lisa Ann Sandell. Image on cover shows a young white woman with wavy dark blond hair who has some leaves adorning her hair.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

1. Song of the Sparrow by Lisa Ann Sandell

 

Book cover for All the Violet Tiaras: Queering the Greek Myths by Jean Menzies. Image on cover shows the head of a Greek statue wearing a crowns of violets on his head

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

2. All the Violet Tiaras: Queering the Greek Myths by Jean Menzies

 

Book cover for Happy Land by Dolen Perkins-Valdez. Image on cover shows a young black kid closing his or her eyes and wearing a crowns of colourful flowers, including a daisy and a sunflower.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

3. Happy Land by Dolen Perkins-Valdez

 

Book cover for Sisi: Empress on Her Own by Allison Pataki. Image on cover shows a young brunette white woman who is facing away from the audience. There are little white flower tucked in the French brain of her hair.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

4. Sisi: Empress on Her Own by Allison Pataki

 

Book cover for The Tradition by Jericho Brown. Image on cover is a painting of a young dark-skinned black child who is wearing a white shirt and a crown of white flower in their hair as they stand in front of the ocean on a small hill.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

5. The Tradition by Jericho Brown

 

Book cover for Lady Sunshine by Amy Mason Doan. Image on cover shows a young white woman with strawberry blond hair who has a large wreath of white flowers on her head.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

6. Lady Sunshine by Amy Mason Doan

 

Book cover for The Invisible Hour by Alice Hoffman. Image on cover shows a young white woman with wavy red hair walking away from the viewer in a golden grassy field. She has a small wreath of flowers on her head  and is wearing a dark cloak.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

7. The Invisible Hour by Alice Hoffman

 

Book cover for Lost in the Garden by Adam S. Leslie. Image on cover shows a grainy photo of a young white woman with wavy light brown hair walking away from the viewer. She has dozens of small pink and white flowers stuck in her hair haphazardly.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

8. Lost in the Garden by Adam S. Leslie

 

Book cover for Dearest (Woodcutter Sisters, #3; Books of Arilland, #4) by Alethea Konti. Image on cover shows a young brunette white woman with loosely curly hair who is wearing a blue dress and sitting on the ground while looking back at the viewer with a solemn expression on her face. She’s wearing a crown of purple and white flowers in her hair.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

9. Dearest (Woodcutter Sisters, #3; Books of Arilland, #4) by Alethea Konti

 

Book cover for The May Queen Murders by Sarah Jude. Image on cover shows a young white woman wearing a white floral crown and a bridal veil who is chest-deep in a body of water at night. This scene made me shudder. She looks scared!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

10. The May Queen Murders by Sarah Jude

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Wednesday Weekly Blogging Challenge: Something I Could Give a Speech About With No Notice

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Drawing of a person holding their head in pain. You can see their brain and a red stream of light filling their brain and oozing down their spinal column. This light is meant to represent the pain and other symptoms associated with migraines. I’ve talked about living with a food allergy previously on my blog, so the topic I’m picking for this week’s prompt is migraines.

Migraines are a painful neurological disease that can do everything from make you temporarily go blind to mimic some of the signs of a stroke if you have symptoms like trouble speaking or numbness or weakness on one side of the body.

(Not everyone has the most severe forms of this disease or these symptoms, of course, but anyone who has migraines or knows someone who does should be aware of all of the possibilities).

I’d talk about all sorts of things in my speech:

  • When to go to the emergency room for an attack
  • How to tell the difference between a migraine (which isn’t generally dangerous unless you’re throwing up too much and get very dehydrated) and a medical emergency like a stroke or brain tumour
  • Home treatments to help avoid an ER or Urgent Care Centre visit when possible
  • Vitamin and mineral supplements that may reduce how common and how severe your migraines are
  • Which supplements don’t currently have scientific data supporting their use for this diagnosis
  • The neurological link between migraines, strokes, epilepsy, and seizures and why more people should be aware of it
  • How to help someone you love who is having a migraine
  • How to help an acquaintance or stranger who is experiencing a migraine in a public place
  • Food and drinks that are triggers for some people
  • Food and drinks that may reduce symptoms
  • How to respond to well-meaning people who think migraines are a fancy term for tension headaches
  • How to have patience with less amenable people who don’t understand invisible illnesses and think you’re being dramatic
  • Other triggers, both common and uncommon
  • Why getting enough sleep and eating meals on a regular schedule is vital for us
  • Your chances of passing this disease onto your kids if one or both parents have migraines
  • How to complete necessary life tasks when you feel another attack coming on
  • Why resting during the postdrome phase (right after the migraine ends)  is so important
  • The latest research on what causes this disease and possible new treatments for it

And so much more.

(I feel like someone else in the WWBC community has migraines, too? Was that you, George? If so, I’d invite you on stage to talk, too).

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Top Ten Tuesday: Authors You Wish Were Still Writing Today

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Two ballpoint pens lying on an opened hardcover book that’s filled with beautiful calligraphy. Nearby is an inkwell. Here are some authors I wish would have written more. 

1) Octavia E. Butler

Her Parable of the Sower (Earthseed, #1) series was never finished, but there is a film version of Parable of the Sower in pre-production as of now.

I would have loved to see how she wrapped up this story and what she would be writing now if she were still alive.

2. Jean M. Auel

The Clan of the Cave Bear (Earth’s Children, #1) series was technically wrapped up in 2011, and I’ve grumbled here before about how many conflicts sputtered out and moments of foreshadowing were never addressed in the final instalment. I wish she’d write one more book to properly explain all of the things that were ignored.

 

3. Rachel Vincent

I loved her Stray (Shifters, #1) series that began in 2007. It had a satisfactory ending, but she hasn’t written much since then and I couldn’t get into the few books she did release.

 

4. Sarah Waters 

Nothing new from her has been published since 2015. It’s been far too long.

 

5. Me

A combination of writer’s block, my own health issues, loved ones with health issues, and other stuff going on in my life has seriously slowed down the amount of fiction I write..

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Wednesday Weekly Blogging Challenge: Celebrities I’d Like to Meet

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Photo of several large busts of the heads of famous scientists like Marie Curie and Einstein. They are arranged in a neat line outdoors in a garden filled with grass and evergreen bushes that have been trimmed into box shapes. The existence of media training makes this week’s theme a tricky one. Just because a celebrity has developed a particular public image doesn’t mean that they are at all like that persona behind closed doors.

I think you can enjoy someone’s work without falling into hero worship. It’s so hard to tell what is PR spin and what is real. (Well, unless we’re talking about the first two people on my list. Everyone seems to love them!)

Maybe they really are wonderful human beings behind the scenes, or perhaps not. I don’t judge anyone based on a single story or assume I know a singer, writer, or other entertainer personally just because I read, watch, or listen to their stuff.

To stick with the spirit of this post, though, here are some celebrities that seem to have a lot of positive stories floating around about them. If I needed to meet someone famous, I’d start with this list and hope they were just as delightful behind the scenes as they are when they’re in the public eye.

  • Mr. Rogers
  • Dolly Parton
  • Dave Chappelle
  • Tom Hanks
  • Viola Davis
  • Patrick Stewart
  • Sean Patrick Thomas
  • Gina Rodriquez
  • Ed Sheeran
  • Julia Stiles
  • Keanu Reeves
  • Denzel Washington
  • Barack and Michelle Obama
  • Ms. Rachel

 

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Top Ten Tuesday: Things That Keep Me From Reading

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Thank you to Cristyn @ Draconic Breath for coming up with this topic in 2024. You gave me the inspiration I needed to write this week’s freebie post!

A pair of black-rimmed glasses lying on an opened book. 1. Migraines

There are at least a few other TTT bloggers who already know what this illness is like. For everyone else, Reading is difficult when I’m in the migraine cycle due to symptoms like brain fog, nausea, and pain. Staring at a screen can also trigger migraines or make them worse, so I do try to limit screen time on those days.

2. Doomscrolling 

It’s so tempting but such a time waster as well!

3. Repetitive Storylines

I love speculative fiction, but I also find myself growing bored with some of the common plot lines in this genre because of how often they seem to be repeated. This is one of the reasons why you’ll find other genres mentioned in my Top Ten Tuesday posts. Switching things up keeps me interested in reading.

4. Medical Appointments

There have been a lot of them in my household this past year or so, and they can certainly cut into the time one has for more pleasurable things like reading.

5. Nice Weather 

I know I’ve mentioned this a few times before on my blog, but when Ontario has nice weather, often in the spring and autumn, I feel compelled to go outside and enjoy it instead of read. There will be plenty of other days in the year when it’s too hot, cold, icy, stormy, or humid to enjoy a walk in the park or a visit to the beach.

6. Overwhelming Choices

There are so many amazing books out there that I don’t always know which one to read next! This is not a problem I ever had growing up as ebooks didn’t exist back then and my parents weren’t always able to take us to the library. I feel fortunate to have it now even if decision fatigue does sometimes make it hard to decide what to read next.

7. Social Media in General  

I have been trying to be more mindful of my use of it in 2026, but it can be quite easy to spend an hour watching short videos or reading stranger’s comments online instead of picking up one of the books I’ve been meaning to read.

8. Writing

Striking a balance between writing and reading isn’t always easy.

9. Meeting Other Goals

Whether it’s related to work, exercise, or spending time with other people, I do have limits on how much energy I have for reading!

10. Chores 

The dishes won’t wash themselves, after all.

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Wednesday Weekly Blogging Challenge: A Few Happy Memories From My Life

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Here are a few of my happy memories.

Age 4. My mother was heavily pregnant with her third child. Me and my toddler-aged brother sat on the couch next to her, gently touched her belly, and talked to the baby that would soon be joining us.

Age 8. Our family lived in a trailer home next to a highway that was built on a big hill behind our home. We were very low income, and I know my parents worried about how that would affect their kids. The biggest thing on my mind then was how often I’d get to go sledding down that hill. We had some lightweight plastic sleds that glided down that hill perfectly. It was my favourite thing in the entire world other than reading, and I did not care that my parents couldn’t afford to buy us fancy new toys or name-brand clothes.

Wooden library shelves filled with books. Age 18. Exams were wrapping up, and winter break was just about to begin. I sat in my college library and thumbed through the magazines they had there, paying special attention to the ones about science, literature, or history. It was neither a big library nor a fancy one, but I loved how quiet and peaceful it always was. I spent a lot of time there between classes even if I didn’t have any papers to write or upcoming tests to study for.

Adult. Recently married and living in Canada now. We couldn’t afford to travel on our honeymoon, so we explored a lot of free or low-cost stuff to do here in Toronto instead. I was amazed at how large, clean, and beautiful High Park was. Out of all of the parks in the world, it’s still my favourite one.

Adult. My first book was published, a collection of short stories. (There’s a link to it at the top of this site). I really should try to get more of my work published sometime. Writer’s block is terrible.

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Top Ten Tuesday: April Showers

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Here are ten books with rainy titles.

Book cover for The Art of Racing in the Rain by Garth Stein. Image on cover shows the side profile of the head and snout of a yellow Labrador retriever.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

1. The Art of Racing in the Rain by Garth Stein

 

Book cover for Rain Is Not My Indian Name by Cynthia Leitich Smith. Image on cover shows a young native woman taking a photo.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

2. Rain Is Not My Indian Name by Cynthia Leitich Smith

 

Book cover for Rain Before Rainbows by Smriti Prasadam-Halls. Image on cover is a cute drawling of a young girl sitting next to a red fox in the forest while they both look up at a rainbow that is beaming down at them.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

3. Rain Before Rainbows by Smriti Prasadam-Halls

 

Book cover for Madras on Rainy Days by Samina Ali. Image on cover shows a blue butterfly and a yellow butterfly flying past falling autumn leaves outdoors.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

4. Madras on Rainy Days by Samina Ali

 

Book cover for Monique and the Mango Rains: Two Years With a Midwife in Mali by Kris Holloway. Image on cover shows Monique smiling. She’s wearing a blue dress that reveals her shoulders and a colourful head wrap.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

5. Monique and the Mango Rains: Two Years With a Midwife in Mali by Kris Holloway

 

Book cover for Down Came the Rain: My Journey Through Postpartum Depression by Brooke Shields. Image on cover shows Brooke Shields face from the side. She’s looking down with a solemn expression on her face.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

6. Down Came the Rain: My Journey Through Postpartum Depression by Brooke Shields

 

 

Book cover for Raining Sardines by Enrique Flores-Galbis. Image on cover shows an alligator or crocodile lying motionless in a body of water beside some tall green grass.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

7. Raining Sardines by Enrique Flores-Galbis

 

Book cover for The Thing That Walked In the Rain by Otis Adelbert Kline. Image on cover shows a dark and gloomy scene where it is raining heavily and there isn’t enough light to see much else other than the vague outline of a building.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

8. The Thing That Walked In the Rain by Otis Adelbert Kline

 

Book cover for Tales of a Shaman's Apprentice: An Ethnobotanist Searches for New Medicines in the Rain Forest by Mark J. Plotkin. Image on cover shows a white man wearing an all white outfit crouching next to a South American Native person who is talking to him about, presumably, medicinal plants in the rainforest.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

9. Tales of a Shaman’s Apprentice: An Ethnobotanist Searches for New Medicines in the Rain Forest by Mark J. Plotkin

 

Book cover for Zonia's Rain Forest by Juana Martinez-Neal. Image on cover shows a drawing of an adorable South American preschooler who has long, straight black hair and is looking at a blue butterfly with curiosity in her eyes.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

10. Zonia’s Rain Forest by Juana Martinez-Neal

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