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Wednesday Weekly Blogging Challenge: Stores or Other Physical Place I Wish Still Existed

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Old-fashioned wooden seats in an auditorium. There are so many physical places I wish still existed!

When I was a kid, there was a dollar theatre in one of the towns we moved to. I believe it closed down a year or two after we arrived there, but for a little while we could see older movies there for only $1 per person.

I miss record stores, too. They were a great place to browse and find new music. The one I visited was always playing various records as background music, so you could also discover new artists and songs just by asking the employees what was currently playing.

Chain bookstores still exist in my city, but many secondhand, niche, and indie bookstores have long since shut down, especially since 2020. You could find so many unique books in them, and they had a much calmer ambiance than the places that also sold, say, home decor and candles.

Now some clothing stores are sadly disappearing, too. One of the ones I shopped at for many years is trying to get all of their customers to order online, so I’ve switched to other stores that have my size in stock so I can see how clothes fit and feel before buying them. Clothing and shoes are two things I avoid ordering online due to how much variation there can be in size and feel from one brand to the next. There is no consistency there.

When I was a teenager, I used to walk laps in the mall with my friends. From what I’ve read, many of today’s teens don’t do that much anymore because some malls no longer allow unaccompanied minors in them and because parenting standards for when kids should be allowed to go out by themselves have shifted in many families.

Some of the malls in my city are busy, but others are terribly quiet or have even shut down. I wish the culture would shift back to a time when it was okay for teens to hang out at malls when they’re not in school. There’s nothing wrong with online interactions, but I think many people of all ages could do with more in-person socializing as well.

These are a few of the places I miss. How about all of you?

 

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Wednesday Weekly Blogging Challenge: Websites I Wish Still Existed

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Several friends walking down the beach together on a foggy day. This shot was taken from far away and behind, so no facial features can be discerned. The Ooze was a Christian message board created by Spencer Burke that existed about 20 years ago when the Internet was quite different from how it is today. It was a gathering place for all sorts of people who were trying to come up with better ways to live out their faith. I met some incredible people there, including my spouse!

Even though I was a Christian back then, I generally avoided the theological discussions that took place there. I was much more interested in finding practical ways to quietly live out my beliefs as someone who had virtually no extra money to spare but who still wanted to help others in whatever ways I could.

While I am very far removed from that world now, I’d love to have a reunion with many of the genuine folks I met there. They were good people.

See also: message boards in general. I wish they would become popular again as I miss the depth of conversation that could be found in them about all sorts of niche topics. It was almost like taking a college course on those subjects.

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Wednesday Weekly Blogging Challenge: Have You Ever Attended Your High School Reunion? Why?

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Black and white photo of an empty hallway filled with sunlight in a school.

For illustrative purposes only. This wasn’t my school.

No, I’ve never attended any of my high school reunions and I never will.

Let me explain.

I was homeschooled from preschool through grade 3 and had excellent experiences with that for the most part.

In grades 4 and 5, I attended a wonderfully friendly little school in the western portion of the United States. Had I stayed there, maybe things would have turned out differently.

The summer before I began grade 6, we moved cross-country to a rural part of the midwest because a church there hired my dad as their new pastor. Most of my classmates had been together since kindergarten, if not much earlier in life, and at best the majority of them were not at all interested in welcoming new kids into the fold.

I was bullied for years, mostly emotionally although there were a few minor physical altercations as well. In retrospect, these experiences caused severe depression and social anxiety. Yes, I made a few friends along the way, but no one I kept up with after graduation.

One thing that kept me going was the thought that someday I would never again be legally required to interact with any of the people who made my life miserable for so many years.

My final year of high school only included two classes on campus which was a massive relief. The rest of the time, I was joyfully taking courses at a local college for free thanks for a dual enrolment program my school offered.

I was confused by classmates who grieved the end of high school.  Their experiences were nothing at all like mine.

For me, those years are something I will revisit in the rare blog post but that is all.

I forgive those classmates and genuinely hope they’ve become kind and accepting adults, but I never developed the deep emotional connection to that chapter of my life that I’d need in order to be willing to travel internationally and spend a substantial sum of money just to attend a class reunion. The window of opportunity for that closed many years ago. No thank you.

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Wednesday Weekly Blogging Challenge: Something to Know Before Visiting Canada

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A Canadian Flag flying in the breeze as a few wispy white clouds sail through the blue sky.

I’ve met a few people over the years who believe that all Canadians are bilingual and that you should know at least some French before visiting us, but neither of those things is true.

According to Stats Canada, French is the first language of about 20% of thepopulation, English is the first language of 57% of us, and the other 23% learned another language first. About 18% of Canadians speak both French and English.

If you’re visiting a rural village in Quebec and speaking to a group of elderly people who have lived there for their entire lives, you will probably either need to speak French with them or bring an interpreter with you. The same can be true if you’re going deep into Northern Canada to visit small indigenous or First Nations communities as sometimes the oldest living generations there don’t speak English well (or at all) either from what I have heard, although I know more about the French angle due to how much higher the percentage of French speakers is in southern Ontario as compared to indigenous languages.

The largest cities in all of our provinces and territories are filled with people who speak English fluently and the vast majority of the other rural areas in the rest of Canada can say the same.

It might be their second, third, fourth, etc.  language due to how much immigration we’ve been lucky enough to have, but you should have no problem communicating with most people in big cities if you need directions or other types of assistance.

People who immigrate to Quebec are required to speak French on an A2 proficiency level in order to receive Permanent Residency.

(For anyone who doesn’t know, proficiency levels range from  a low of A1 to a high of C2 from what I understand, so they are basically asking new residents to be able to have short, simple conversations in that language and know enough about it to be able to fill out a form that, say, asks for your name, phone number, and home address. Fluency takes much longer to acquire and is not required).

It is not at all necessary to know French (or Pikanii, Tlingit, or any other non-English language)  in order to have a great vacation here or live in any of the other provinces or territories, though.

Once I become fluent in Spanish, French is next on my list to learn. After that, who knows? Maybe I’ll try one of the many amazing Indigenous languages next.

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Wednesday Weekly Blogging Challenge: A Story About My Best Teacher

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Empty rows of desks in a high school classroom. Linda Fetter was my best teacher. She’s almost certainly retired or maybe not even alive anymore based on her age when I first met her and how many years it has been since I graduated high school, therefore I think it’s okay to mention her by name here. I have never seen anything about her online, so I doubt she’ll ever know about this post even if she is still with us.

The first class I took with her was ninth grade Language Arts, and I loved how clearly she explained the grammar lessons she taught to us. She knew just how to use the right metaphors when we weren’t quite getting it.

Our class was the first period of the  day. If we acted too sleepy, she’d have us stand up and do a few jumping jacks to get our blood pumping which I always found amusing.

Later on I took a mandatory speech course as well as two elective courses with her that involved nothing but reading from a pre-selected list of classic novels. The latter were a nice break from the classes I took that had heavy homework loads as all she required of us was that we spend a few minutes reading every night after school. It was so much easier than conjugating irregular Spanish verbs or trying to figure out quadratic equations.

She also added little flourishes to her lessons that I will never forget. For example, she’d play classical music and give us peppermints to suck on during exams because she’d read studies that showed those things improved test scores. (Whether they are still thought to be helpful, I don’t know. She paid attention to the latest academic research of the time, though.)

Sometimes we’d go outside for class at the end of the year when the weather was really nice. That was always a refreshing break from the stuffy classrooms as our school didn’t have air conditioning and it could get rather hot and humid by the beginning of June.

I loved the care and concern she showed for her students and wished she could have taught Language Arts for grades 10, 11, and 12 as well.

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Wednesday Weekly Blogging Challenge: Unique YouTube, TikTok, or Other Videos I’ve Seen Recently

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I thought all of these videos were amusing and worth checking out, and I’m including a few caveats for those of you who might need them:

Drawing of a cellphone that has a YouTube video queued up on it ready to play. All you see of the video is the red YouTube background and a play button. Learn to Solve an Integral (A Calculus Parody of One Direction’s “What Makes You Beautiful”) AP Calculus BC.

This is Mitchell Gaiser‘s only video ever on YouTube which definitely makes this unique. You don’t need to know anything about boy bands or calculus in order to enjoy it.

 

What Free Range Chickens Actually Look Like 

Farming While Beige posts videos about raising chickens, eating eggs and chickens, sustainable agriculture, social justice, and similar topics on his channel. (This particular video does not include any political content, but some of his other videos do for anyone reading this who prefers to avoid such topics). It’s simply about the reality of raising thousands of free range birds on a small farm. For example, he shows how he feeds his birds and where they spend their days.  I love his dry sense of humour.

 

Cucumber Ice Cream from 1885 

Tasting History is a cook who makes old recipes from just about any culture or historical era you can think of, includes combinations of flavours that most people in modern times have probably not tried. It’s such a fun way to explore history and learn a little about the many generations that have come before us.

 

The Powerful Way Kids Understand Medical Trauma

Dr. Bayo shares all sorts of educational videos about health, medical care, chronic illness, and similar topics. I loved seeing her commentary on this video that showed how child directed medical play can help kids process the emotional side of cancer treatments. The little girl in it is adorable and handling her treatments well.

 

Edgar Allen Poe Reads His Hatemail 

Eleanor Morton has created satirical and other types of comedic videos for years. This video does not include any political content, but she does occasionally poke fun at political figures from the U.K., the U.S. and other countries elsewhere on her account, so once again viewer beware if you avoid that stuff. I think her literary skits are her best ones, so keep an eye out for her C.S. Lewis and J.R.R Tolkien content in particular if you want to do a deep dive on her.

 

Things My Third Graders Said to Me This Week (Last Week of School)

Keldric Holmes is a third-grade teacher who shares a weekly top-ten list of things his students say to him during the school year. His students are brutally honest and hilarious in the way that only kids can be. Do note that there are occasional and brief references to possibly triggering things like drug use, body shaming, domestic violence, negative talk about food, weight, and diet, etc because not all kids are fortunate enough to grow up in safe and appropriate homes.  They clearly love Mr. Holmes, though, and most of their comments are about silly kid logic as opposed to heavier subjects.

 

Lawn Bubble.

James Callender found a gigantic bubble of water underneath his grass in July of 2015, so obviously he decided to try to pop it. Clink on the link above to see if he succeeded.

 

Cat in a Heated Blanket.

Lacy Babcock seems to have stopped making YouTube videos about five years ago. This is the only video I’ve seen from her again, but it includes a cat who has reached peak levels of coziness thanks to a heated blanket.  As someone who has essentially no experience with cats, I never would have guessed one would make this much noise out of what I presume is deep happiness.

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27 – Wednesday Weekly Blogging Challenge: Animals I Wish I Could Have As Pets

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Are we picking real or mythological animals this week, friends? I wish some of you could jump into a Time Machine to tell past me which option is going to be more popular this week.

Two rabbits exploring a hay-filled enclosure. Both rabbits are white with brown ears and a few brown spots on their soft fur. One is standing up on his or her back legs to look around while the other is looking ahead at the viewer. Since you can’t do that, I’m going to give two answers.

As far as real animals go, rabbits would be my first pick if I wasn’t allergic to them and their hay.

They are quiet and usually pretty small creatures that don’t need to be taken outside for walks like a dog does.

This means that when I’m having a migraine or other health troubles, I could still rest at home and not have to go out into the bright, noisy world.

A pet rabbit would be no bother at all on those days.

I also think they’re absolutely adorable little mammals and would love watching them hop around and play or perhaps take a peaceful nap depending on the time of day.

If we’re strictly speaking of magical friends here, I think Brownies would be a nice household companion. I would happily give them food,respect, and a peaceful home and would appreciate whatever small repairs or improvements they decided to make to my home in exchange.

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Wednesday Weekly Blogging Challenge: A Typical Day in My Life

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A white person wearing a light orange, long-sleeved shirt is typing on a laptop while sitting on a couch. This is what a typical day in my life looks like not counting the usual stuff like making breakfast or checking the mail:

15-20 minutes of studying Spanish in the morning either on Duolingo or by consuming Spanish media (music, tv shows, films, etc).

A 30 minute morning workout. It will most often be kickboxing, weightlifting, or a maybe a walk if I’m not feeling great. Occasionally, yoga or dancing might replace one of these activities. Evening workouts can interfere with my sleep schedule, so mornings it is.

Writing. I try to get in a few hours of writing a day on average. Due to my migraines, this means that some days are more like seven or eight hours of writing while others include very little of it.

Volunteering. This, too, varies by day. It’s done virtually and could be as short as five minutes or as long as a few hours. So much relies on how long a to-do list is and how much time I have to check things off from it!

Chores. This is maybe 30 minutes to three hours a day, depending on whether or not the laundry basket is full and how many loads of laundry I might need to do. Chores always include washing multiple rounds of dishes since we don’t own a dishwasher and have a tiny drying rack. It might also include going grocery shopping, mailing a birthday card to a relative, picking up a prescription or other necessary goods at the pharmacy, calling the doctor or dentist, cleaning the bathroom, dusting, sweeping, etc. You know, the typical stuff adults do to keep things running smoothly that kids don’t think about when they wish they, too, were grownups.

A short lunchtime walk, if possible. It’s good to stretch my legs after a morning of (mostly) sitting.

A focused afternoon. Anything I didn’t finish in the morning is something I try to return to and wrap up ibefore dinner.

15-20 minutes of studying Spanish in the evening. It’s a nice way to wind down, and I’m getting a much stronger grasp of that language with all of the time I’ve invested into it.

Batch cooking. About twice a week I’ll make something that keeps well like spaghetti, tacos, shepherd’s pie, or a stir-fry that I can eat for lunch or for dinner over the next 2-3 days.

Maybe an evening walk? Sometimes this happens, and sometimes it doesn’t depending on the weather and how I’m feeling.

 

Migraines are the main thing that interrupts this schedule. Screen time is a known trigger for many people’s migraines, and my medical professionals have told me to really keep an eye on it and limit screen time when I can for that reason.  It’s hard for me to focus when I’m having one anyways, so those days are meant for lying still in a room that is as dark and quiet as possible.

So if my body is anywhere in the migraine cycle, I put off everything I possibly can for a couple of days and get as much rest as I can. I’m quite fortunate to have the ability to do this, and it’s one reason why I push myself to get so much done on the good days.

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Wednesday Weekly Blogging Challenge: Something I Wish I Knew More About

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Media training is something I wish I knew more about.

Closeup photo of a microphone lying on a soundboard, presumably in a recording studio. I’ve read that public figures of all sorts were traditionally taught how to speak to the media early on in their careers.  As in, shortly before  they were signed to a record label, decided to run for office, chosen as a new player for a sports team, had their book approved for publication, or  experienced something similarly life changing, they were given lessons on how to talk to reporters and how to steer a conversation away from matters they’d rather not discuss.

(Modern social media stars unfortunately don’t seem to receive this same training in many cases).

I promise I am not trying to make this a political post in any way! I’m simply fascinated by how people can so smoothly steer a conversation in the way they want it to go even when they’re asked about possibly painful topics by a reporter who has been trained to get a straight answer.

One of the things I’ve read about media training is that public figures are told to answer the question they wish they were asked instead of the one they were actually asked.

So, for example, if so-and-so is asked why their latest album didn’t sell as many copies as was expected, they might pivot to talk about the incredible writers and producers who worked on that project with them or maybe they’ll tell a story about a fan who approached them and said that a certain song was life changing instead.

This can be used for much more serious topics as well, of course.

I’m fascinated by how well this can work, why it still sometimes fails, and want to learn more. It’s not how I approach conversations at all either as the person asking questions or the person answering them.

If anyone has any personal insight into how this type of communication plays out, I’d love to hear your thoughts.

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Wednesday Weekly Blogging Challenge: Something I Could Give a Speech About With No Notice

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Drawing of a person holding their head in pain. You can see their brain and a red stream of light filling their brain and oozing down their spinal column. This light is meant to represent the pain and other symptoms associated with migraines. I’ve talked about living with a food allergy previously on my blog, so the topic I’m picking for this week’s prompt is migraines.

Migraines are a painful neurological disease that can do everything from make you temporarily go blind to mimic some of the signs of a stroke if you have symptoms like trouble speaking or numbness or weakness on one side of the body.

(Not everyone has the most severe forms of this disease or these symptoms, of course, but anyone who has migraines or knows someone who does should be aware of all of the possibilities).

I’d talk about all sorts of things in my speech:

  • When to go to the emergency room for an attack
  • How to tell the difference between a migraine (which isn’t generally dangerous unless you’re throwing up too much and get very dehydrated) and a medical emergency like a stroke or brain tumour
  • Home treatments to help avoid an ER or Urgent Care Centre visit when possible
  • Vitamin and mineral supplements that may reduce how common and how severe your migraines are
  • Which supplements don’t currently have scientific data supporting their use for this diagnosis
  • The neurological link between migraines, strokes, epilepsy, and seizures and why more people should be aware of it
  • How to help someone you love who is having a migraine
  • How to help an acquaintance or stranger who is experiencing a migraine in a public place
  • Food and drinks that are triggers for some people
  • Food and drinks that may reduce symptoms
  • How to respond to well-meaning people who think migraines are a fancy term for tension headaches
  • How to have patience with less amenable people who don’t understand invisible illnesses and think you’re being dramatic
  • Other triggers, both common and uncommon
  • Why getting enough sleep and eating meals on a regular schedule is vital for us
  • Your chances of passing this disease onto your kids if one or both parents have migraines
  • How to complete necessary life tasks when you feel another attack coming on
  • Why resting during the postdrome phase (right after the migraine ends)  is so important
  • The latest research on what causes this disease and possible new treatments for it

And so much more.

(I feel like someone else in the WWBC community has migraines, too? Was that you, George? If so, I’d invite you on stage to talk, too).

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