Category Archives: Blog Hops

Wednesday Weekly Blogging Challenge: Something That’s Improved Since I Was a Kid

Hosted by Long and Short Reviews.

Click here to read everyone else’s replies to this week’s question and to read everyone else’s replies to this week’s question and here to see the full list of topics for the year.

Six speech bubbles lined up in three equal rows. The row on top is coloured peach, the middle row is pink, and the bottom row is sea green. One of the biggest improvements I’ve seen since I was a kid has to do with how much easier it is now to find people who share the same hobby, interest, identity, or diagnosis.

Among countless other possibilities, if you are:

LGBTQ+,

A fan of a specific book series, tv show, or obscure hobby,

Trying to learn more about a new hobby,

A llama herder, or

Just coming home from the hospital or doctor’s office after you or someone you love has been diagnosed with disease X,

 

You can find communities of people online who are in the same boat.

This is valuable for everyone, but it is even more important for folks who are living in rural areas or with health conditions that limit how much they can travel and who therefore may not be able to find anyone in their neighbourhood to discuss such things with in person.

When the Internet became something that virtually everyone in the western world has daily access to, countless people were finally able to meet others like themselves online for both serious and lighthearted purposes.

For subjects like life-changing illnesses, this means that information about the latest tests, studies, and treatments can spread much faster and farther than it could have a few decades ago. There is no doubt in my mind that this has saved a lot of lives as well as reduced suffering.

But even if you’re only searching for likeminded folks online who share your interest in topic X, it is still a wonderful thing to find those kindred spirits and finally get to dig deeply into the minutia of what you enjoy. Hobbies are an important part of living a fulfilling life, and I love how much easier is to meet other people who like the same very specific things you do these days.

I am so grateful that such things are possible and common nowadays.

8 Comments

Filed under Blog Hops

Top Ten Tuesday: Books I Wasn’t Assigned to Read in School (But Wish I Had Been)


Hosted by That Artsy Reader Girl

I already did this topic last July during the Freebie post that week that asked us to pick an old topic from the Top Ten Tuesday archives. Had I known it would be repeated so soon, I would have picked a different option from that list!

Photo of rows of empty, two-person desks in a classroom. Each desk has two chairs and enough space for two kids to sit there. You can see a chalkboard at the front of the room but it has been wiped clean and is ready for the next class.Therefore, I’m going to be making a list of books I was not assigned to read in school but wish had been on the syllabus. I ended up borrowing some of them from the library and reading them on weekends on over the summer. It would have been helpful to have a teacher around to explain certain cultural norms that have since changed or references to other works I didn’t quite get, for example.

1. As I Lay Dying by William Faulkner

2. The Iliad by Homer

3. Native Son by Richard Wright

4. 12 Years a Slave by Solomon Northup

5. Johnny Got His Gun by Dalton Trumbo

6. Kindred by Octavia E. Butler

7. A Room of One’s Own by Virginia Woolf

8. Do Androids Dream of Electric Sheep? by Philip K. Dick

9. Beloved by Toni Morrison

10. The Picture of Dorian Gray by Oscar Wilde

Which classics – modern or otherwise – do you wish had been taught in school?

 

50 Comments

Filed under Blog Hops

Wednesday Weekly Blogging Challenge: Something That Was Better When I Was a Kid

Hosted by Long and Short Reviews.

Click here to read everyone else’s replies to this week’s question and to read everyone else’s replies to this week’s question and here to see the full list of topics for the year.

A semi-opened laptop. It is in an otherwise pitch-black room, and the light from the screen is illuminating the keyboard with all sorts of soft, pastel colours. This is one of those topics that makes me wish I could take a peek at all of the other answers before publishing my own! Will most folks choose serious or frivolous answers, I wonder?

I’m going to bend the rules slightly and give two answers this week so that I won’t be out of place for giving a serious answer while everyone else bemoans the loss of their favourite snacks from decades past or for giving a lighthearted reply while everyone else soberly talks about recently extinct species of animals or something.

My Serious Answer: Winter

Winter was better when I was a kid because it was colder and snowier. This meant that there was more water to fill our aquifers when spring came and that fewer harmful species like ticks survived the deep freezes of that season.

Last winter was worryingly mild and dry in Ontario. We received less than half the usual amount of snow and some veterinarians here are now recommending that pet owners give their dogs tick medication year-round because they were still finding ticks on dogs in late December when the ground should have been far too frozen for any of those creatures to be crawling around, much less being alert enough to bite.

Climate change is here, and it’s rapidly affecting everything in our environment.

My Lighthearted Answer: Message Boards

I remember a time when there were active forums and message boards everywhere online for any topic you could imagine and probably many more for subjects you’d never think would have such numerous or devoted fans. Sometimes a thread would be started about a specific question and it would sit dormant for weeks or months until someone with the right knowledge discovered it, bumped it to the top, and answered it.

Social media is useful for a lot of other things, but it usually does not inspire deep conversations on niche interests that unfold over many years or reward people who are experts in their fields and genuinely know what they’re talking about.

I desperately miss having access to all of that knowledge and having the opportunity to add to it when I could.

If only we could experience both of these things thriving in 2024: social media for what is predominantly lighthearted, surface-level conversations and forums for people who want to dig deeply into a specific topic and either share their knowledge of it or become well-versed in it themselves.

10 Comments

Filed under Blog Hops

Top Ten Tuesday: Bookish Brags


Hosted by That Artsy Reader Girl

The phrase “believe yourself” written in black coloured pencil on white graph paper. There’s a little red heart written in red coloured pencil next to that phrase as well as three coloured pencils - gold, black, and red - lying on the page above these scribbling. I’m in a cheerful and confident mood and so will be sharing some bookish brags today.

1. I’m much better at saying no than I used to be. I wish I could read every speculative fiction book  out there and then review it, but that’s simply not possible until someone invents a longer day for all of us to enjoy! Hehe.

2. I (usually) know which books will be up my alley.

3. I (usually) know which books won’t appeal to me.

4.  Every week I comment on as many Top Ten Tuesday posts as I possibly can. Some comment systems don’t work for my tablet for some reason, but I send out friendly replies to as many blogs I can reply to until the list runs out or until my time runs out.  I want new participants and less well known bloggers to feel included and welcomed.

5. Jana has accepted a few of my topic suggestions…including today’s topic. It’s thrilling every time it happens.

6. I’m reading a much more diverse array of authors these days. Most of the authors I read are women. My goal is for at least half of the books I review to be written by people who are non-white, LGBTQ+, disabled, chronically ill, immigrants, a member of another minority group, or some combination of these categories.  I routinely surpass that goal and am thinking I should raise it for 2025.

7.  I’ve met so many kind and intelligent people in Top Ten Tuesday and other bookish circles.

8. I no longer feel guilty for giving some number other than 10 answers for Top Ten Tuesday prompts. Some weeks it is fewer than that and other weeks it is more.

9. Top Ten Tuesday has taught me to pay closer attention to new release lists, so I now often know which books to keep an eye out for at my local library.

10. I am delighted to see bookish people thriving on Instagram, YouTube, and TikTok. I’m too shy to make videos myself, but it’s wonderful to see how social media can be used to spread the love of books. This is my post, so I can brag about other people’s accomplishments if I wish to. 😉

54 Comments

Filed under Blog Hops

Wednesday Weekly Blogging Challenge: A Genre I Want to Read More Of

Hosted by Long and Short Reviews.

Click here to read everyone else’s replies to this week’s question and to read everyone else’s replies to this week’s question and here to see the full list of topics for the year.

Last winter I reread the first few books in Jean M. Auel‘s Earth’s Children series. They reminded me of how much I enjoy historical fiction novels that have been well-researched and include the latest data about what life was like for average people in that era.

For example, the Earth’s Children books described what the characters ate, how they hunted and gathered, what their clothes and tools looked like, and so much more. Specific plants and animals from 30,000 years ago are explained in great detail, including species that have since gone extinct. The author extrapolated when necessary as not everything can be fossilized, of course, but she did an incredible amount of research for these books that really made ice age Europe come alive for me.

A photo of an abandoned stone cathedral on a grassy hill. It still has walls but no longer has a roof or glass in its windows. There is a stormy grey and slightly pink sky behind it. I love becoming immersed in a world so unlike modern life.

Years ago I adored how the Pillars of the Earth series by Ken Follett took a similar approach to English life in the 12th century. It was written from the perspective of one of the many working class men who was hired to build a cathedral.

They worked long, hard hours for low pay at a time when workers’ rights were much less protected than they are today. I was fascinated by how they managed to survive under such conditions.

If you know of other historical fiction novels that are similar to these ones as far as accuracy and research goes, I’d love to hear about them.

Generally, I do not enjoy reading about war or royalty, but I’m open to just about any other setting and era anywhere in the world.

14 Comments

Filed under Blog Hops

Top Ten Tuesday: Ten Books I Read Because of the Hype


Hosted by That Artsy Reader Girl

A person sitting on a gigantic log and reading a book on the beach. The log has been bleached white by the water. The person is wearing pants, long sleeves, and a jacket, so it was probably a spring or autumn day instead of a summer one. This phot was taken from far away, so you can’t see any other identifying features of the person. Mostly, it’s just calm waves lapping at the shore and undisturbed sand.I used to be much more willing to read the hottest new books even if they weren’t from genres I typically enjoy.

What I’ve learned over time is that my tastes generally do not overlap very much with the latest hyped titles. While there are certainly exceptions to this rule, especially in the speculative fiction genre where I spend so much of my reading time,  there tends to be an inverse relationship between how much fanfare is being created over a new book and how much it will appeal to me personally.

This is in no way a criticism of wildly popular stories or the people who read them. I’m sure there are many incredible books being released right now that also happen to be hyped up. They’re simply not my cup of tea, and that’s perfectly okay.

Here are some of the titles in this category that did not work for me for a wide variety of reasons but might be the ideal read for someone else.

1. Eat, Pray, Love by Elizabeth Gilbert

2.The Fault in Our Stars by John Green

3. The Notebook by Nicholas Sparks

4. Wilder Girls by Rory Power

5. The Bridges of Madison County by Robert James Waller

6. American Gods by Neil Gaiman

7. Mexican Gothic by Silvia Moreno-Garcia

8. The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo by Taylor Jenkins Reid

9. Where the Crawdads Sing by Delia Owens

10.The Host by Stephenie Meyer

54 Comments

Filed under Blog Hops

Wednesday Weekly Blogging Challenge: Describe Your Sense of Humour

Hosted by Long and Short Reviews.

Click here to read everyone else’s replies to this week’s question and to read everyone else’s replies to this week’s question and here to see the full list of topics for the year.

 

Image of something being downloaded. The text reads “downloading future. Please wait” and there is a loading image above the cancel bar. I started working on this back in March and have been slowly adding to it as I find more examples of things that tickle my funny bone. Some posts work better if they’re allowed to percolate for a long time.

My sense of humour is gentle and kind but honest.

Everyone should be laughing and feeling happy by the time the punchline is revealed.

 

I love these types of humour:

  • stories or videos about pets or people doing amusing things like accidentally scaring themselves
  • jokes that allow people to poke gentle fun at themselves if they wish to
  • puns and wordplay
  • wholesome memes
  • anything that sidesteps the audience’s expectations of what will happen next and gives us something clever in exchange.

 

Here are some examples of things that have made me smile or laugh recently:

 

One day, a police officer pulls a car over and sees the backseat is full of penguins. The officer tells the driver, “You can’t be doing this, you need to take these penguins to the zoo!”

The next day, the police officer pulls the same car over again, and says, “Hey! I told you to take these penguins to the zoo!” The driver says, “I did, and today I’m taking them to the movies!”

 

 

Beagle Puppy Learns How to Go Down Stairs  (1 minute, 33 seconds long)

Adorableness is always in style. This dog has been a YouTube star for years.

 

 

Q. Why are frogs so happy?

A. They eat whatever bugs them.

 

 

First Day of Rural Medicine (2 minutes, 15 seconds long)

This is a skit about the challenges of providing medical care to a culture that tries to tough everything out. I grew up around so many farmers and other rural folks who avoid modern medical care unless there’s a true emergency, and even then they won’t go in very promptly. For example, one of my relatives had a heart attack in the middle of the night years ago, took some antacids, and then casually strolled into their family doctor’s office the next morning. Their family doctor examined them and immediately called for an ambulance. After emergency surgery for a quadruple bypass, my relative is doing well. Their family doctor might need a hug, though.

 

 

Q: What would bears be without the letter B?

A: Ears.

 

 

Screenshot of a message on a social media site (possibly tumblr?) from user Roxy Horror whose username is roxiqt. The message says: “I went to the ER for a migraine once. The nurse asked me what I took for it. I said, ‘a litre of chocolate milk.’ She paused and said, ‘odd…but only something a migraine sufferer would try’ as if I correctly answered her riddle and she was granting me passage to the land of pain relief.”

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

This one is funny and relatable to me. I have tried the chocolate milk – well, actually mine was chocolate almond milk – trick when I was desperate for relief. It did not work in any way, but it was delicious. Now I have more effective prescription medication to take when I feel a migraine coming on, so I have been granted passage to the land of pain relief, too, assuming my meds work.

 

 

Photo of a cat sitting on a wooden swing outside. The cat is wearing an orange scarf and a blue sweater. There are colourful autumn leaves scattered about and some trees in the background that look like their leaves are turning colours, too. Humorously enough, the text on this image reads “Friends: it’s still 85 degrees out. Me: …..” 85 Fahrenheit is about 29 Celsius. So even when it’s still warm out, both this can and I yearn for autumn.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Autumn is so much nicer than summer to me!

 

Animals Reacting to Their Reflections  (2 minutes, 32 seconds long)

I thought this was funny and educational. Some animals seem to have much more self-awareness than others do.

 

Closeup photo of the head of a peaceful capybara. Image on text reads: “Humans and capybaras are evolutionarily closely related. You are genetically as cute as this capybara.”

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

(I don’t know that we’re actually that closely related to capybaras….but this meme made me smile. I hope you all smiled, too.)

 

This is a still from the 2001 film Shrek. In it Donkey (the sometimes overly cheerful grey donkey in it) is walking in a meadow looking pleased with himself. There is a dark forest behind him and a boulder in front of him. The text reads, “me going outside to improve my mental health.” At the bottom of the image, the donkey’s line of dialogue is on the screen and reads “I like that boulder. That’s a nice boulder.”

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Walking is not a cure-all, but it sure does help distract me when I’m worried about something. Exercise is a great form of stress relief.

13 Comments

Filed under Blog Hops, Personal Life

Top Ten Tuesday: Books on My Fall 2024 To-Read List


Hosted by That Artsy Reader Girl

Photo of a light brown mug and an opened book lying in a bed of red and yellow autumn leaves on the forest floor. When I first began working on this post, I couldn’t find anything that appealed to me.

There is a lot of gory horror as well as Christmas stories that are generally released in the autumn.

No offense to anyone who loves either of those genres, but I needed to look elsewhere to build my list this week.

Sometimes it pays off to dig deeper and keeps going. Here are some of the upcoming autumn books that have caught my eye.

I’m too much of a mood reader to commit to a specific reading schedule in most cases, but all of these do look interesting.

Thank you to Nicole @ BookWyrmKnits for doing this topic a week early and giving me two more titles to add to my list!

 

Book cover for The City in Glass by Nghi Vo. Image on cover is a drawing of a city on fire just after dusk. We are looking at the flames from far away while standing under two carved stone pillars that are still connected by a piece of stone placed on top of them. There are female figures carved into the pillars. They look a little like Greek goddesses.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The City in Glass by Nghi Vo

Publication Date: October 1

Why I Want to Read It: This novella looks like a nice mixture of several different themes: adventure, romance, and fantasy.

 

Book cover for The Black Hunger by Nicholas Pullen. Image on cover shows a tabled filled with autumn fruits like apples, some of which are rotten, and a human skull placed on the side of the table. This is an unsettling scene that made me shiver.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Black Hunger by Nicholas Pullen

Publication Date: October 8

Why I Want to Read It: The story looks scary but hopefully won’t be gory. Maybe it would be a good Halloween read?

 

Book cover for What Does It Feel Like by Sophie Kinsella. Image on cover is a drwaing of a white woman with long, straight light brown hair who is wearing a fluffy turquoise gown that has a low-cut back and walking away from the audience.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

What Does It Feel Like? by Sophie Kinsella

Publication Date: October 8

Why I Want to Read It: I’ve never read her work before. After hearing about her life-threatening cancer diagnosis earlier this year, I’m wondering if I should give her work a try.

 

Book cover for Masquerade by Mike Fu. Image on cover is a drawing of a chrysanthemum-like flower blooming under a full moon.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Masquerade by Mike Fu

Publication Date: October 29

Why I Want to Read It: My reading pile has been low on mysteries this year, and this one sounds interesting.

 

 

Book cover for The Teller of Small Fortunes by Julie Leong. Image on cover is a possibly computer-generated painting of a woman sitting on the back ledge of a covered n wagon and looking out at some homes in the distance. It’s just past dusk and quickly growing dark outside. You can see a fe stars in the sky as well as a lamp hanging over the backside of the wagon and illuminating her and a small black cat who is sitting next to her. It’s a peaceful scene.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Publication Date: November 5

Why I Want to Read It: I’m very into cozy reads at the moment.

 

Book cover for We Are All Ghosts in the Forest by Lorraine Wilson. Image on cover is a drawing of two people, one adult and one child, walking together in a forest that has a thick layer of fog in it that obscures most other details about the scene.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

We Are All Ghosts in the Forest by Lorraine Wilson

 

Publication Date: November 7

Why I Want to Read It: 2020 sharply reduced my interest in post-apocalyptic stories, but I am slowly coming around to enjoying them again so long as there is no disease component to the plot. A world without the Internet would be so different.

 

Book cover for The Last Hour Between Worlds by Melissa Caruso. Image on cover is a drwaing of three different clocks. One is a normal analogue clock like you’d see anywhere on Earth. The second one has far too many hours noted on it. Instead of 12, there are more like 24. The third clock has interesting symbols by each hour marked on it. They look like they might be Chinese symbols.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Last Hour Between Worlds by Melissa Caruso

Publication Date: November 19

Why I Want to Read It: The time travel and reality bending aspects of it sound cool. I also like the fact that the protagonist has a young child but is still able to go on adventures. Good for her!

 

 

76 Comments

Filed under Blog Hops

Wednesday Weekly Blogging Challenge: Books That Should Have Ended a Different Way

Hosted by Long and Short Reviews.

Click here to read everyone else’s replies to this week’s question and to read everyone else’s replies to this week’s question and here to see the full list of topics for the year.

 

Photo of a person wearing a hoodie and hunching over a little as they read a book. They are in a room that is only partially illuminated with light, so you can see a weak yellow-orange light behind them but it is not strong enough to show us this person’s age, race, sex, or any other identifying characteristics. So all you see is their silhouette as they read.

Just like last week, I’m digging deep and picking books from a wide variety of genres that I have rarely if ever discussed here before. (So there will be no ranting about the Earth’s Children series today. Ha!)

These were all books I otherwise enjoyed, by the way. I simply wish their endings had been different for reasons I will share below. Beware of spoilers in this post, although I did try to minimize them as much as possible.

Y: The Last Man by Brian K. Vaughan

What Should Have Happened: Either most species should have gone extinct or the characters should have figured out what killed off everyone with a Y chromosome and fixed it.

 

Tyrell by Coe Booth

What Should Have Happened: Tyrell was smart person who was working so hard to get out of poverty. I liked him and hated how ambiguously things ended. In my imagination, everything worked out well for him and he’s living a quiet, happy life. I choose to believe he now has a good job,  a few adorable kids with his wife, and was recently convinced to adopt a dog from the local shelter that he pretends to find annoying but also sneaks treats to when no one is looking.

 

Allegedly by Tiffany D. Jackson

What Should Have Happened: Ideally, new evidence would have come forward to exonerate Mary, but I would have accepted any other possible ending as well other than the one we received.  I was annoyed when I read the last few pages of this book even though the rest of it was great.

 

The Golden Road by L.M. Montgomery

What Should Have Happened: A time machine and proper medical treatment so that a certain beloved character can live a long, healthy, and happy life. (Yes, I know that’s unrealistic for this era, but it still broke my heart to realize what happened to them).

 

Once Upon a Wardrobe by Patti Callahan Henry

What Should Have Happened: Once again, we need a time machine so that one of the characters in this book could received the medical care they needed to live to a ripe old age in good health even though I know people with their diagnosis did not live very long back then. It feels deeply unfair that this was their fate, though, and those deaths caused so much pain.

6 Comments

Filed under Blog Hops

Top Ten Tuesday: Characters That Authors Could Redeem


Hosted by That Artsy Reader Girl

The silhouttes of two people with long straight hair who are leaping for joy on the beach as the sun sets. The ocean water behind them is rippling gently. Thank you to Deanna @ A Novel Glimpse for submitting the theme Ten Characters Authors Surprisingly Redeemed. I will be tweaking it a little as it trickier than I thought it would be!

I tend to DNF stories about characters who are really unpleasant, so I had to do a lot of brainstorming to come up with examples.

Redemption is probably  too strong of a word for some of these characters. They have a long way to go before they reach that point in most cases.  What I can say is that I enjoyed reading about them despite their terrible behaviour and I could see how each of them could be redeemed with some more introspection,  remorse over their actions, and attempts to make things right.

Is that close enough to the original theme? I hope so!

Here are my answers:

1. The Catcher in the Rye by J.D. Salinger

The (Possibly?) Redeemeable Character: Holden Caulfield, the angsty protagonist

 

2. Wuthering Heights by Emily Brontë

The (Possibly?) Redeemeable Character: Heathcliff, the controlling and moody love interest

 

3. Oryx and Crake (MaddAddam, #1) by Margaret Atwood

The (Possibly?) Redeemeable Character: Everybody. Or at least the main human characters.

 

4. Yellowface by R.F. Kuang

The (Possibly?) Redeemeable Character: Juniper Song, the deceptive protagonist.

 

5. Brave New World by Aldous Huxley

The (Possibly?) Redeemeable Character: John, the confused protagonist

 

6. Logan’s Run by William F. Nolan

The (Possibly?) Redeemeable Character: Logan-6, the brave but impressionable protagonist.

32 Comments

Filed under Blog Hops