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Top Ten Tuesday: Books with Handwriting on the Cover

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I unfortunately do not have pretty handwriting, but I admire those who can write beautiful cursive letters.

Book cover for The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society by Mary Ann Shaffer. Image on covert shows someone standing by a metal fence by a body of water and looking out at the water. It’s either sunset or sunrise as everything is in shadow.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

1. The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society by Mary Ann Shaffer

 

Book cover for To All the Boys I've Loved Before (To All the Boys I've Loved Before, #1) by Jenny Han. Image on cover shows a young Asian girl lying on her bed and looking up. She appears to be pausing while writing in her diary.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

2. To All the Boys I’ve Loved Before (To All the Boys I’ve Loved Before, #1) by Jenny Han

 

Book cover for She's Come Undone by Wally Lamb. Image on cover shows the face of a young white woman in the sky partially obscured by clouds. The ocean is beneath her.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

3. She’s Come Undone by Wally Lamb

 

 

Book cover for Me Talk Pretty One Day by David Sedaris. Image on cover is the title and author written in block letters on a chalkboard.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

4. Me Talk Pretty One Day by David Sedaris

 

Book cover for Honey Girl by Morgan Rogers. Image on cover shows a drawing of a young mixed-race woman with curly blond and brown hair. She’s wearing a white shirt and gold hoop earrings and looking thoughtfully at the viewer.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

5. Honey Girl by Morgan Rogers

 

Book cover for Sophie’s Choice by William Styron. Image on cover is the title written in cursive against a yellow, pink, and red background that vaguely resembles human skin.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

6. Sophie’s Choice by William Styron

 

Book cover for When Dimple Met Rishi by Sandhya Menon. Image on cover is a photograph of the bottom two-thirds of a young Indian girl’s face. She’s grinning and drinking an orange beverage that has the name of this book written on it.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

7. When Dimple Met Rishi by Sandhya Menon

 

Book cover for Flowers for Algernon by Daniel Keyes. Image on cover shows a white rat sitting on a white surface.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

8. Flowers for Algernon by Daniel Keyes

 

Book cover for Island Queen by Vanessa Riley. Image on cover is a painting of a young black woman wearing a lacy white dress and an enormous straw hat that’s been decorated with red flowers and feathers of many colours.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

9. Island Queen by Vanessa Riley

 

 

Book cover for Memoirs of a Geisha by Arthur Golden. Image on cover shows a closeup drawing of the chin and mouth of a young Japanese Geisha.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

10. Memoirs of a Geisha by Arthur Golden

 

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Wednesday Weekly Blogging Challenge: Unique YouTube, TikTok, or Other Videos I’ve Seen Recently

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I thought all of these videos were amusing and worth checking out, and I’m including a few caveats for those of you who might need them:

Drawing of a cellphone that has a YouTube video queued up on it ready to play. All you see of the video is the red YouTube background and a play button. Learn to Solve an Integral (A Calculus Parody of One Direction’s “What Makes You Beautiful”) AP Calculus BC.

This is Mitchell Gaiser‘s only video ever on YouTube which definitely makes this unique. You don’t need to know anything about boy bands or calculus in order to enjoy it.

 

What Free Range Chickens Actually Look Like 

Farming While Beige posts videos about raising chickens, eating eggs and chickens, sustainable agriculture, social justice, and similar topics on his channel. (This particular video does not include any political content, but some of his other videos do for anyone reading this who prefers to avoid such topics). It’s simply about the reality of raising thousands of free range birds on a small farm. For example, he shows how he feeds his birds and where they spend their days.  I love his dry sense of humour.

 

Cucumber Ice Cream from 1885 

Tasting History is a cook who makes old recipes from just about any culture or historical era you can think of, includes combinations of flavours that most people in modern times have probably not tried. It’s such a fun way to explore history and learn a little about the many generations that have come before us.

 

The Powerful Way Kids Understand Medical Trauma

Dr. Bayo shares all sorts of educational videos about health, medical care, chronic illness, and similar topics. I loved seeing her commentary on this video that showed how child directed medical play can help kids process the emotional side of cancer treatments. The little girl in it is adorable and handling her treatments well.

 

Edgar Allen Poe Reads His Hatemail 

Eleanor Morton has created satirical and other types of comedic videos for years. This video does not include any political content, but she does occasionally poke fun at political figures from the U.K., the U.S. and other countries elsewhere on her account, so once again viewer beware if you avoid that stuff. I think her literary skits are her best ones, so keep an eye out for her C.S. Lewis and J.R.R Tolkien content in particular if you want to do a deep dive on her.

 

Things My Third Graders Said to Me This Week (Last Week of School)

Keldric Holmes is a third-grade teacher who shares a weekly top-ten list of things his students say to him during the school year. His students are brutally honest and hilarious in the way that only kids can be. Do note that there are occasional and brief references to possibly triggering things like drug use, body shaming, domestic violence, negative talk about food, weight, and diet, etc because not all kids are fortunate enough to grow up in safe and appropriate homes.  They clearly love Mr. Holmes, though, and most of their comments are about silly kid logic as opposed to heavier subjects.

 

Lawn Bubble.

James Callender found a gigantic bubble of water underneath his grass in July of 2015, so obviously he decided to try to pop it. Clink on the link above to see if he succeeded.

 

Cat in a Heated Blanket.

Lacy Babcock seems to have stopped making YouTube videos about five years ago. This is the only video I’ve seen from her again, but it includes a cat who has reached peak levels of coziness thanks to a heated blanket.  As someone who has essentially no experience with cats, I never would have guessed one would make this much noise out of what I presume is deep happiness.

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Top Ten Tuesday: LGBTQ+ Books I Can’t Believe I’ve Never Read

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Happy Pride Month, everyone! In honour of it, I’m tweaking this week’s theme so that all of the titles on it are about LGBTQ+ characters. These are all books I’ve been meaning to read but not have read yet.

If you’ve read any of them, did you like them? If you’re familiar with this subgenre, What other LGBTQ+ books did you think were great stories?

And don’t you wish we all had unlimited time to read?

Book cover for Clap When You Land by Elizabeth Acevedo. Image on cover is a drawing of two young women staring ahead at the audience. One o the young women is black and the other looks Latina. They both have curly hair that has been neatly styled and have serious expressions on their faces.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

1. Clap When You Land by Elizabeth Acevedo

 

 

Book cover for Black Sun (Between Earth and Sky, #1) by Rebecca Roanhorse. Image on cover shows a drawing of a dark-skinned woman’s head that is superimposed over a set of bird wings. Or maybe she’s wearing a bird wing headdress?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

2. Black Sun (Between Earth and Sky, #1) by Rebecca Roanhorse

 

 

Book cover for They Both Die at the End (They Both Die at the End, #1) by Adam Silvera. Image on cover shows a drawing of two young men walking on a pier under a full moon at night. Skyscrapers loom in the distance across the water.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

3. They Both Die at the End (They Both Die at the End, #1) by Adam Silvera

 

 

Book cover for The City We Became (Great Cities, #1) by N.K. Jemisin. Image on cover shows an arched doorway underneath a bridge that is leading to a city full of skyscrapers.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

4. The City We Became (Great Cities, #1) by N.K. Jemisin

 

 

Book cover for On Earth We're Briefly Gorgeous by Ocean Vuong. Image on cover is a black and white shot of a pair of muscular arms wrapped around a man’s knees as he sits on the ground.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

5. On Earth We’re Briefly Gorgeous by Ocean Vuong

Technically, I did read a little of this book, but then it was due back at the library and so I couldn’t finish it. Someday I will try again.

 

Book cover for The House in the Cerulean Sea (Cerulean Chronicles, #1) by T.J. Klune. Image on cover is a drawing of a two-story brick house that was built on the very edge of a cliff that looks like it’s about to crumble into the ocean. There is almost no soil left underneath the house, only a sharp jut of land.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

6. The House in the Cerulean Sea (Cerulean Chronicles, #1) by T.J. Klune

 

Book cover for This Is How You Lose the Time War by Amal El-Mohtar. Image on cover shows a blue jay hanging upside down underneath a cardinal who is standing straight up and looking around with its feather tucked in neatly.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

7. This Is How You Lose the Time War by Amal El-Mohtar

 

Book cover for Juliet Takes a Breath by Gabby Rivera. Image on cover is a drawing of a brown person who has shaved most of the hair off from the back and sides of their head. The hair on top is arranged into a bun.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

8. Juliet Takes a Breath by Gabby Rivera

 

Book cover for Before I Let Go by Marieke Nijkamp. Image on cover is a drawing of a red mitten lying on ice. Next to the mitten is a large section of ice that has been broken through, presumably by a car or other heavy object. The ice has deep cracks in it and you can see the very dark water in the area where the ice was broken.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

9. Before I Let Go by Marieke Nijkamp

 

Book cover for Girl, Woman, Other by Bernardine Evaristo. Image on cover shows photos of women of various races. All of the photos have filters on them that make them look more abstract.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

10. Girl, Woman, Other by Bernardine Evaristo

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27 – Wednesday Weekly Blogging Challenge: Animals I Wish I Could Have As Pets

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Are we picking real or mythological animals this week, friends? I wish some of you could jump into a Time Machine to tell past me which option is going to be more popular this week.

Two rabbits exploring a hay-filled enclosure. Both rabbits are white with brown ears and a few brown spots on their soft fur. One is standing up on his or her back legs to look around while the other is looking ahead at the viewer. Since you can’t do that, I’m going to give two answers.

As far as real animals go, rabbits would be my first pick if I wasn’t allergic to them and their hay.

They are quiet and usually pretty small creatures that don’t need to be taken outside for walks like a dog does.

This means that when I’m having a migraine or other health troubles, I could still rest at home and not have to go out into the bright, noisy world.

A pet rabbit would be no bother at all on those days.

I also think they’re absolutely adorable little mammals and would love watching them hop around and play or perhaps take a peaceful nap depending on the time of day.

If we’re strictly speaking of magical friends here, I think Brownies would be a nice household companion. I would happily give them food,respect, and a peaceful home and would appreciate whatever small repairs or improvements they decided to make to my home in exchange.

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Top Ten Tuesday: My Favorite Books by My Favorite Authors

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Thank you to Cathy @ WhatCathyReadNext for submitting these theme! While my list of favourite books always evolves over time, these are titles that I enjoyed reading and still think about quite often. 

Since TTT bloggers don’t always all share the same taste, I’ll briefly describe why I love all of these stories as well.

Book cover for The Deep by Rivers Solomon. Image on cover is a drawing of a black mermaid with long hair is swimming in the ocean up to the surface. There are two whales swimming nearby.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

1. The Deep by Rivers Solomon

The world building in this novella was exquisite, but I can’t say much else about it without sharing spoilers. All you need to know going in is that mermaids exist in this universe and have very little in common with Ariel.

 

Book cover for The Blue Castle by L.M. Montgomery. Image on cover shows a castle with blue turrets that was built on a cliff overlooking the ocean.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

2.The Blue Castle by L.M. Montgomery

There were so many fantastic subplots included here about topics like emotional abuse, the harm of strict gender roles, learning how to stand up for yourself, living with a chronic illness, etc. that this is something I tend to reread every year or two. I’d particularly recommend to people who are like me and generally don’t read much romance because while falling in love was part of the story, it was not at all the entirety of it.

 

Book cover for The Little Stranger by Sarah Waters. Image on cover shows a drawing of a large country mansion just after dusk while the shadows are closing in on it.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

3. The Little Stranger by Sarah Waters

Ms. Waters made her name writing lesbian romance novels, so some fans were disappointed to see her step away from that genre when The Little Stranger came out. I thought she did an excellent job of branching out and trying something new with this mystery that may or may not include paranormal elements depending on how you interpret certain scenes.

I love it when authors take risks with their work like this.

 

Book cover for Remote Control by Nnedi Okorafor. Image on cover shows the face of a young African woman who has a short Afro and is wearing hoop earrings superimposed on a drawing of a jungle that is so thickly packed with trees light can barely penetrate it. In this interpretation of the scene, the hoop earrings are now thick vines hanging from the trees!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

4.Remote Control by Nnedi Okorafor

This novella had excellent character development and would make an amazing film. Once again, I can’t share anything else for spoiler reasons or I’d be gushing with admiration for the protagonist.

 

Book cover for Woman on the Edge of Time by Marge Piercy. Image on cover is a painting of several brown women standing around and staring at each other in a room. Some of them are only wearing their underwear.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

5. Woman on the Edge of Time by Marge Piercy

The mystery and science fiction genres meld together in this novel about a woman who is either time travelling to save the future or who is having strong hallucinations while being treated by doctors who may be subconsciously allowing their sexist and racist beliefs to cloud their judgement.

I’ve had pretty good experiences with the medical establishment for the most part, but there have been a few times when I wondered if my symptoms weren’t being taken seriously due to my sex, disability, and/or sexual orientation. It can be hard to tell what’s actually going on in certain situations, especially given how overworked doctors and nurses often are, and I thought it was interesting that this ambiguity was explored so thoroughly in this book.

 

Book cover for A Psalm for the Wild-Built (Monk & Robot, #1) by Becky Chambers. Image on cover shows a top-down drawing of a winding road through a forest. On the road you can see a robot lifting their arm up to wave at someone who is pedaling a tiny motor home down the road.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

6. A Psalm for the Wild-Built (Monk & Robot, #1) by Becky Chambers

This is the epitome of a comfort read if you ask me. It’s such a peaceful and utopian setting.

 

Book cover for A Thousand Mornings: Poems by Mary Oliver. Image on cover is a photo of a pine forest on a very cloudy day. All of the trees are enshrouded in such a thick layer of fog that I can’t quite tell if this is actually a photo or if it’s a painting!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

7. A Thousand Mornings: Poems by Mary Oliver

Honestly, all of Ms. Oliver’s poetry is wonderful, especially for people who struggle to understand this genre. She had such a thoughtful and accessible writing style that anyone who has ever stepped foot into nature and liked it has a good chance of relating to something she wrote.

 

Book cover for The Radium Girls: The Dark Story of America’s Shining Women by Kate Moore. Image on cover shows a lime green film over an antique photo of 1920s-style girls posing together in their flapper dresses

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

8.The Radium Girls: The Dark Story of America’s Shining Women by Kate Moore

This is a sobering story about corporate greed, the abuse of low-income workers, and how a few brave young women spoke out to improve things for future generations.

 

Book cover for The Snow Child by Eowyn Ivey. Image on cover is a drawing of a little white girl hiding behind a white tree in a snowy forest. A red fox peeks out from behind a nearby tree as well.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

9.The Snow Child by Eowyn Ivey

I adored the magical realism in this book as well as the 1920s retelling of an old Russian fairy tale. It was creative and bittersweet.

 

Book cover for Foster by Claire Keegan. Image on cover shows a blurry image of a young white girl sitting as she watches other children ride a merry-go-round.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

10.Foster by Claire Keegan

This reads like a story a grandmother might tell her grandchildren about what life was like generations ago. I desperately want a sequel for it.

 

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Wednesday Weekly Blogging Challenge: A Typical Day in My Life

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A white person wearing a light orange, long-sleeved shirt is typing on a laptop while sitting on a couch. This is what a typical day in my life looks like not counting the usual stuff like making breakfast or checking the mail:

15-20 minutes of studying Spanish in the morning either on Duolingo or by consuming Spanish media (music, tv shows, films, etc).

A 30 minute morning workout. It will most often be kickboxing, weightlifting, or a maybe a walk if I’m not feeling great. Occasionally, yoga or dancing might replace one of these activities. Evening workouts can interfere with my sleep schedule, so mornings it is.

Writing. I try to get in a few hours of writing a day on average. Due to my migraines, this means that some days are more like seven or eight hours of writing while others include very little of it.

Volunteering. This, too, varies by day. It’s done virtually and could be as short as five minutes or as long as a few hours. So much relies on how long a to-do list is and how much time I have to check things off from it!

Chores. This is maybe 30 minutes to three hours a day, depending on whether or not the laundry basket is full and how many loads of laundry I might need to do. Chores always include washing multiple rounds of dishes since we don’t own a dishwasher and have a tiny drying rack. It might also include going grocery shopping, mailing a birthday card to a relative, picking up a prescription or other necessary goods at the pharmacy, calling the doctor or dentist, cleaning the bathroom, dusting, sweeping, etc. You know, the typical stuff adults do to keep things running smoothly that kids don’t think about when they wish they, too, were grownups.

A short lunchtime walk, if possible. It’s good to stretch my legs after a morning of (mostly) sitting.

A focused afternoon. Anything I didn’t finish in the morning is something I try to return to and wrap up ibefore dinner.

15-20 minutes of studying Spanish in the evening. It’s a nice way to wind down, and I’m getting a much stronger grasp of that language with all of the time I’ve invested into it.

Batch cooking. About twice a week I’ll make something that keeps well like spaghetti, tacos, shepherd’s pie, or a stir-fry that I can eat for lunch or for dinner over the next 2-3 days.

Maybe an evening walk? Sometimes this happens, and sometimes it doesn’t depending on the weather and how I’m feeling.

 

Migraines are the main thing that interrupts this schedule. Screen time is a known trigger for many people’s migraines, and my medical professionals have told me to really keep an eye on it and limit screen time when I can for that reason.  It’s hard for me to focus when I’m having one anyways, so those days are meant for lying still in a room that is as dark and quiet as possible.

So if my body is anywhere in the migraine cycle, I put off everything I possibly can for a couple of days and get as much rest as I can. I’m quite fortunate to have the ability to do this, and it’s one reason why I push myself to get so much done on the good days.

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Top Ten Tuesday: Characters Who Share My First Name

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I struggled with the original topic for this week, “Favorite Secondary/Minor Characters,” because I’ve been reading more nonfiction lately. Therefore, I’m going rogue. 

When I was a teenager, someone called out my name at an amusement park. I turned around only to see a man talking to his young daughter. This was the only time during my childhood that I can recall someone saying Lydia and not meaning me!

Here are ten books that include characters named Lydia.

How common is it for you to find your first name used for fictional characters or in real life to draw the attention of someone who isn’t you?

 

Book cover for Love for Lydia by H.E. Bates. Image on cover is a painting of a man wearing a suit and sitting in a restaurant or bar listening to a woman sing on stage. This looks like it was painted in the 1920 due to the flapper-style dress she is wearing.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

1. Love for Lydia by H.E. Bates

 

Book cover for A Home for Goddesses and Dogs by Leslie Connor. Image on cover shows a drawing of a young blonde white girl who is snuggling with her yellow dog.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

2. A Home for Goddesses and Dogs by Leslie Connor

 

Book cover for How to Be a Girl in the World by Caela Carter. Image on cover is a drawing of several multi-story buildings on a street. Above them the cloudy sky takes precedence in this drawing and fills up about 80% of the available space

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

3. How to Be a Girl in the World by Caela Carter

 

Book cover for The Paper Museum by Kate S. Simpson. Image on cover is a drawing of a cave dug into the side of a hill. There is warm yellow light spilling out of the cave into the dusky night air and a large stone building, possibly a museum, in the distance.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

4. The Paper Museum by Kate S. Simpson

 

Book cover for Lydia, Queen of Palestine by Uri Orlev. Image on cover shows a preteen aged white girl sitting on a red throne. She’s wearing a gold crown and a comically oversized red and white robe.

 

 

 

 

 

5. Lydia, Queen of Palestine by Uri Orlev

 

Book cover for An Accomplished Woman by Jude Morgan. Image on cover shows a small black and white photo of a nineteenth century woman who is wearing a dress and has a serious expression on her face.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

6. An Accomplished Woman by Jude Morgan

 

Book cover for The Education of Lydia by Charles X. Wolffe. Image on cover shows a young white blonde woman with short hair who is wearing a 1960s style short blue dress and holding one arm as she turns gently away from the viewer.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

7. The Education of Lydia by Charles X. Wolffe

 

Book cover for The Testaments (The Handmaid's Tale, #2) by Margaret Atwood. Image on cover shows a young woman wearing a white bonnet and a green cloak. Her face is obscured by the bonnet.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

8. The Testaments (The Handmaid’s Tale, #2) by Margaret Atwood

 

Book cover for Everything I Never Told You by Celeste Ng. Image on cover shows the title and author’s name written on scraps of yellow, white, and orange paper.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

9. Everything I Never Told You by Celeste Ng

 

Book cover for China Trade (Lydia Chin & Bill Smith #1) by S.J. Rozan. Image on cover shows a Chinese city just after dusk with lamplights and streetlights glowing against a dark blue sky.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

10. China Trade (Lydia Chin & Bill Smith #1) by S.J. Rozan

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Wednesday Weekly Blogging Challenge: Something I Wish I Knew More About

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Media training is something I wish I knew more about.

Closeup photo of a microphone lying on a soundboard, presumably in a recording studio. I’ve read that public figures of all sorts were traditionally taught how to speak to the media early on in their careers.  As in, shortly before  they were signed to a record label, decided to run for office, chosen as a new player for a sports team, had their book approved for publication, or  experienced something similarly life changing, they were given lessons on how to talk to reporters and how to steer a conversation away from matters they’d rather not discuss.

(Modern social media stars unfortunately don’t seem to receive this same training in many cases).

I promise I am not trying to make this a political post in any way! I’m simply fascinated by how people can so smoothly steer a conversation in the way they want it to go even when they’re asked about possibly painful topics by a reporter who has been trained to get a straight answer.

One of the things I’ve read about media training is that public figures are told to answer the question they wish they were asked instead of the one they were actually asked.

So, for example, if so-and-so is asked why their latest album didn’t sell as many copies as was expected, they might pivot to talk about the incredible writers and producers who worked on that project with them or maybe they’ll tell a story about a fan who approached them and said that a certain song was life changing instead.

This can be used for much more serious topics as well, of course.

I’m fascinated by how well this can work, why it still sometimes fails, and want to learn more. It’s not how I approach conversations at all either as the person asking questions or the person answering them.

If anyone has any personal insight into how this type of communication plays out, I’d love to hear your thoughts.

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Top Ten Tuesday: Foliage and Flower Crowns on Book Covers

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May Flowers was the topic for this week, so I decided to hunt down some book covers that have people wearing crowns of foliage or flowers on them.

This is something I’ve seen occasionally in films or books, but I have never seen it done in real life by anyone I know. Perhaps it’s an older custom? Or maybe it’s something done in parts of the world I haven’t visited yet?

Have you ever worn a crowns of flowers or other foliage in your hair or seen someone else do the same thing?

Book cover for Song of the Sparrow by Lisa Ann Sandell. Image on cover shows a young white woman with wavy dark blond hair who has some leaves adorning her hair.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

1. Song of the Sparrow by Lisa Ann Sandell

 

Book cover for All the Violet Tiaras: Queering the Greek Myths by Jean Menzies. Image on cover shows the head of a Greek statue wearing a crowns of violets on his head

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

2. All the Violet Tiaras: Queering the Greek Myths by Jean Menzies

 

Book cover for Happy Land by Dolen Perkins-Valdez. Image on cover shows a young black kid closing his or her eyes and wearing a crowns of colourful flowers, including a daisy and a sunflower.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

3. Happy Land by Dolen Perkins-Valdez

 

Book cover for Sisi: Empress on Her Own by Allison Pataki. Image on cover shows a young brunette white woman who is facing away from the audience. There are little white flower tucked in the French brain of her hair.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

4. Sisi: Empress on Her Own by Allison Pataki

 

Book cover for The Tradition by Jericho Brown. Image on cover is a painting of a young dark-skinned black child who is wearing a white shirt and a crown of white flower in their hair as they stand in front of the ocean on a small hill.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

5. The Tradition by Jericho Brown

 

Book cover for Lady Sunshine by Amy Mason Doan. Image on cover shows a young white woman with strawberry blond hair who has a large wreath of white flowers on her head.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

6. Lady Sunshine by Amy Mason Doan

 

Book cover for The Invisible Hour by Alice Hoffman. Image on cover shows a young white woman with wavy red hair walking away from the viewer in a golden grassy field. She has a small wreath of flowers on her head  and is wearing a dark cloak.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

7. The Invisible Hour by Alice Hoffman

 

Book cover for Lost in the Garden by Adam S. Leslie. Image on cover shows a grainy photo of a young white woman with wavy light brown hair walking away from the viewer. She has dozens of small pink and white flowers stuck in her hair haphazardly.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

8. Lost in the Garden by Adam S. Leslie

 

Book cover for Dearest (Woodcutter Sisters, #3; Books of Arilland, #4) by Alethea Konti. Image on cover shows a young brunette white woman with loosely curly hair who is wearing a blue dress and sitting on the ground while looking back at the viewer with a solemn expression on her face. She’s wearing a crown of purple and white flowers in her hair.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

9. Dearest (Woodcutter Sisters, #3; Books of Arilland, #4) by Alethea Konti

 

Book cover for The May Queen Murders by Sarah Jude. Image on cover shows a young white woman wearing a white floral crown and a bridal veil who is chest-deep in a body of water at night. This scene made me shudder. She looks scared!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

10. The May Queen Murders by Sarah Jude

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Wednesday Weekly Blogging Challenge: Something I Could Give a Speech About With No Notice

A laptop sitting on a wooden table. The text reads: “Wednesday Weekly Blogging Challenge. Hosted by Long and Short Reviews.”

Hosted by Long and Short Reviews.

Click here to read everyone else’s replies to this week’s question and here to see the full list of topics for the year.

Drawing of a person holding their head in pain. You can see their brain and a red stream of light filling their brain and oozing down their spinal column. This light is meant to represent the pain and other symptoms associated with migraines. I’ve talked about living with a food allergy previously on my blog, so the topic I’m picking for this week’s prompt is migraines.

Migraines are a painful neurological disease that can do everything from make you temporarily go blind to mimic some of the signs of a stroke if you have symptoms like trouble speaking or numbness or weakness on one side of the body.

(Not everyone has the most severe forms of this disease or these symptoms, of course, but anyone who has migraines or knows someone who does should be aware of all of the possibilities).

I’d talk about all sorts of things in my speech:

  • When to go to the emergency room for an attack
  • How to tell the difference between a migraine (which isn’t generally dangerous unless you’re throwing up too much and get very dehydrated) and a medical emergency like a stroke or brain tumour
  • Home treatments to help avoid an ER or Urgent Care Centre visit when possible
  • Vitamin and mineral supplements that may reduce how common and how severe your migraines are
  • Which supplements don’t currently have scientific data supporting their use for this diagnosis
  • The neurological link between migraines, strokes, epilepsy, and seizures and why more people should be aware of it
  • How to help someone you love who is having a migraine
  • How to help an acquaintance or stranger who is experiencing a migraine in a public place
  • Food and drinks that are triggers for some people
  • Food and drinks that may reduce symptoms
  • How to respond to well-meaning people who think migraines are a fancy term for tension headaches
  • How to have patience with less amenable people who don’t understand invisible illnesses and think you’re being dramatic
  • Other triggers, both common and uncommon
  • Why getting enough sleep and eating meals on a regular schedule is vital for us
  • Your chances of passing this disease onto your kids if one or both parents have migraines
  • How to complete necessary life tasks when you feel another attack coming on
  • Why resting during the postdrome phase (right after the migraine ends)  is so important
  • The latest research on what causes this disease and possible new treatments for it

And so much more.

(I feel like someone else in the WWBC community has migraines, too? Was that you, George? If so, I’d invite you on stage to talk, too).

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