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Wednesday Weekly Blogging Challenge: Favourite Comfort Foods and Why (+ Recipes)

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The word recipe spelled out with each letter on a separate beige plastic tile. There are two small bouquets of dried flowers lying next to the plastic tiles on the white surface they’ve been placed on. The meals I make are filling and made from common and generally inexpensive ingredients. That is to say, I’m no Martha Stewart or Megan Sussex, but I do like experimenting in the kitchen.

While precise measurements are necessary for certain recipes, I tend to prefer dishes that are more flexible so I can add in little bits of this and that if there’s something in the fridge, freezer, or cupboards that needs to be used up soon. I find it comforting to avoid food waste as much as I possibly can.

Carbohydrates are also comforting to me as you all are about to find out. 😉

 

Cleaning Out the Fridge Rice

(Or fridge rice for short. Ha!)

This is the sort of food I make when I need to make something for dinner and maybe have a few leftovers to use up but don’t have the energy to do anything fancy.

Cook 1 cup of the rice of your choice according to package instructions. Generally, this means about 2 cups of water for 1 cup of rice.

This is a comforting base that needs some extra flavours now like:

  • Eggs (scrambled or hard-boiled)
  • Instant ramen (cook them in about 30-50% the usual amount of water before mixing them in. You want the noodles soft but not to have a ton of extra liquid left over.)
  • Nearly any sort of vegetables you have in your freezer, especially mixed veggie options
  • leftover bits of seafood, chicken, beef, or other protein options from previous meals
  • Beans
  • Sliced almonds or other small nuts
  • Canned water chestnuts

Or whatever else you have in the fridge, freezer, or cabinets that seems like it would go into a rice or stir fry dish. If you like hot sauce, soy sauce, or VH sauce, these can be substituted for the ramen noodles flavouring pack if you wish or sparingly added in if you’re really craving salt.

It’s cheap and tasty way to use up various bits of food that aren’t enough to make a full meal on their own.

 

Mom’s Chicken Taco Soup

This recipe is straight from my mom!

Ingredients:

1 can black beans
1 can pinto beans
I can diced tomatoes, or 1 fresh tomato diced
1 can corn
1 can chicken with juices
3-4 cups water
½ cup rice

½ teaspoon each of:
Cumin
Chili powder
Paprika
Garlic powder
Thyme
Rosemary
Marjoram
Oregano
Salt
Pepper
Cinnamon
Vinegar
Hot sauce

1 tablespoon each:
Cocoa
Ketchup
Brown sugar
Oil

 

Mom’s Instructions:

I heat the oil in a pan first, and then, if the tomato is fresh, I add that next and let it cook for a bit. Then I stir in the rice and the spices and just keep adding ingredients until everything’s in there. simmer it for an hour or until the rice is soft.

 

Strawberry Spinach Salad

I know salad might not seem like the quintessential comfort food at first glance, but this is one of my all-time favourite salads even though I’m generally not a big fan of spinach. The sweet, tangy dressing pairs with the strawberries and spinach perfectly.

Ingredients

2 tablespoons sesame seeds
1 tablespoon poppy seeds
1/2 cup white sugar
1/2 cup olive oil
1/4 cup distilled white vinegar
1/4 teaspoon paprika
1/4 teaspoon Worcestershire sauce
1 tablespoon minced onion
10 ounces fresh spinach – rinsed, dried and torn into bite-size pieces
1 quart strawberries – cleaned, hulled and sliced
1/4 cup almonds, blanched and slivered

Directions

1. In a medium bowl, whisk together the sesame seeds, poppy seeds, sugar, olive oil, vinegar, paprika, Worcestershire sauce and onion. Cover and chill for one hour.

2. In a large bowl, combine the spinach, strawberries and almonds. Pour dressing over salad, and toss. Refrigerate 10 to 15 minutes before serving.

 

Brownie in a Mug

This is a great way to make a single serving of brownies if that’s all you need.

Ingredients

1/4 cup flour (30 grams)
1/4 cup sugar (50 grams)
2 Tbsp (13 grams) cocoa (natural, unsweetened)
Pinch of salt
Tiny pinch of cinnamon
1/4 cup water (60 ml)
2 Tbsp canola oil or vegetable oil (NOT extra virgin olive oil, it’s too strongly flavoured)
1 to 2 drops vanilla extract
1 small scoop of ice cream,  1-2 teaspoons (13-26 grams) heavy whipping cream, or dairy-free alternatives  (optional)

Instructions

Place flour, sugar, cocoa, salt, and cinnamon in a microwave safe ceramic mug. Stir with a fork or spoon to mix well and break up any clumps.

Add the oil, water, and vanilla to the cup and stir until the mixture is smooth and there are no lumps.

Place in microwave and heat on high until the mixture is cooked through, about a 1 minute and 40 seconds for a 1000 watt microwave. You may have to experiment and adjust the time depending on your microwave. Begin with 60 seconds increments and increase until the brownie is done. It should still be moist when cooked through, not dry.

Let cool for a minute and serve with a scoop of vanilla ice cream or a teaspoon or two of whipping cream poured over.

 

 

I look forward to seeing everyone else’s recipes!

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Top Ten Tuesday: Books I Did Not Finish


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A bored-looking white woman is balancing two hardcover books on her head as she looks to the side. Here are some of the books I started reading in the last month or two but did not finish. I’m including my reasons for not finishing them in today’s post because of how subjective these things can be.

What I consider to be reasons to stop reading might be the sorts of writing styles, themes, genres, or topics that other readers love, of course! So if something on this list looks good to you, consider it a book recommendation if you wish.

1. Northern Nights by Michael Kelly

Why It was a DNF for Me: Too scary! Since the events of 2020 I have kept thinking I could handle the horror genre again only for it to be too much for me in 95% of cases.

 

2. When the Ice Is Gone: What a Greenland Ice Core Reveals About Earth’s Tumultuous History and Perilous Future by Paul Bierman

Why It was a DNF for Me: It took way too long to even begin to say anything about what these ice cores say about our possible futures. Maybe someday I will have the patience to try again.

 

3. Beyond the Sea: The Hidden Life in Lakes, Streams, and Wetlands by David Strayer

Why It was a DNF for Me: I tried to read this one right after #2 and once again found the pacing too slow to keep my interest.

 

4. Truth, Lies, and the Questions in Between by L.M. Elliott

Why It was a DNF for Me: A relative of mine raved about this book and I expected to love it.  I liked the characters but found the rampant sexism and focus on Watergate and other politics a little too much. To clarify, both of these things felt pretty realistic for the time from what I know about this era….I just need happier things to read at the moment. Someday I will revisit it.

 

5. Black Woods, Blue Sky: A Novel by Eowyn Ivey

Why It was a DNF for Me: The many forms of abuse written about in this book, including the neglect and endangerment of a young child. In no way do I expect protagonists to be squeaky clean, but I’m not really interested in reading about a character who repeatedly harms others without showing any remorse for their actions or intentions to change (at least in the portion of it I read). I don’t have any desire to be a parent, but I would have made sure that kid had all of her basic human needs and at least some of her wants met every single day.

 

6. The Cure for Women: Dr. Mary Putnam Jacobi and the Challenge to Victorian Medicine That Changed Women’s Lives Forever by Lydia Reeder

Why It was a DNF for Me: I already knew most of what the author had to share. If you don’t know the history of women doctors in this era, though, this is a good place to start.

 

7. It Must Be Beautiful to Be Finished: A Memoir of My Body by Kate Gies

Why It was a DNF for Me: This was an excellent read, but I was dismayed by how poorly her parents and medical providers prepared her for the many surgeries she endured as well as how many painful complications she had as various ear replacements became infected or were rejected by her body. It was heartbreaking.  Yes, she was too young to consent to the reconstructive surgeries as a small child and of course her parents needed to decide for her then, but it surprised me that no one ever wondered if all of those surgeries were really in her best interest after the first few failed and she’d endured weeks to months of misery after each one. Eventually, it became too much for me to continue reading.

 

8. The Black Fantastic: 20 Afrofuturist Stories by André M. Carrington

Why It was a DNF for Me: I struggle with anthologies in general, but I do keep trying them. This one combined so many different writing styles that I just couldn’t get into the flow of it even though I wanted to.

 

9. All the Water in the World: A Novel by Eiren Caffall

Why It was a DNF for Me: I was irritated by the choppy writing style and, from what little I read, total lack of an explanation for why everything suddenly flooded in New York. I mean, wouldn’t people leave the city and go somewhere dry and safe if your hometown became part of the ocean? I sure would.

 

10. The Teller of Small Fortunes by Julie Leong

Why It was a DNF for Me: Weak character development. I desperately wanted to like this tale more, but I needed stronger descriptions of who the characters were as human beings.

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Wednesday Weekly Blogging Challenge: Favourite Blogs

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The last time we had this prompt, I recommended some well-known sites that I enjoy. This time around, I’m going to try to stick to bloggers who sites I enjoy and who I believe should have much bigger audiences.

The word blog is spelled out in Scrabble tiles. Ruined Chapel. My friend Berthold Gambrel reviews films, books, and occasionally other types of media from many different genres on this blog. I’ve discovered some great indie and older stuff through him, so go say hello if you’re in the market for stories that are a little off the beaten path. He’s a friendly person who loves meeting new folks.

Black Outdoors. I don’t know Jacqueline personally, but I love reading her posts about all sorts of outdoor activities that she’s tried. She writes such descriptive posts about what she enjoyed (or, occasionally, didn’t enjoy so much) about them.

Voices for Vaccines. This site share stories about people who caught vaccine-preventable diseases. With measles cases currently surging in North America, I think it’s critical to remember why vaccination is important and what happens when a community loses herd immunity.

Dr. Grumpy. Yes, I’ve recommended him before, but he’s a perennial favourite. While Voices for Vaccines is often tragic, Dr. Grumpy is the place to go for funny medical stories about things his patients have said and done.

Mock Ramblings. Michael and I met in the comment section of someone else’s blog many years ago, and I’ve been following his blog ever since. He talks about writing, Dungeons & Dragons, science fiction, music, and more. My favorite posts of his are about the funny things his kids have said over the years.

Bookwyrm Knits. Nicole is someone I met through Top Ten Tuesday several years ago. She talks about knitting, reading, and random bookish things.  One of these days I’m going to learn to knit so I can emulate her and share my creations, too, because she is a good influence on me. 🙂

Dini Panda Reads. Dini is another kindred spirit I met through Top Ten Tuesday who talks about the most interesting books. Every once in a while, she shares cool stories about life in Indonesia which I also enjoy reading. The climate she lives in is so different from cold and snowy Canada at this time of year!

Leah’s Books. She is Top Ten Tuesday kindred spirit #3 on this list.  We have such similar taste in books that what she reads often sounds really good to me. Her friendly personality is delightful, too. Even though we’ve never met, I kind of feel like we have because of how easy she is to talk to.

Deb@Readerbuzz. And here is Top Ten Tuesday friend #4. Her Sunday Salon posts make the blogosphere a friendlier place.

Sabeeha Harehman. We first met on Twitter probably about 10 years ago. While I don’t talk her as much since leaving that site in 2022, seeing a new post from her in my RSS feed still makes me smile. She is an intelligent and thoughtful person whose blog posts are well worth reading.

 

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Top Ten Tuesday: Books on My Spring 2025 to-Read List


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The first book on this list is one has already been released, and I’ve included publication dates for the rest.

Book cover for They Bloom at Night by Trang Thanh Tran. Image on cover shows a realistic drawing of a young Asian woman with long black hair submerged in water and staring at the audience with a frightened expression on her face.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

1. They Bloom at Night by Trang Thanh Tran

Why I’m Interested: Water is an underused trope in the horror genre. Frightening things can happen in it if you’re unlucky or not careful!

 

Book cover for  Terrestrial History by Joe Mungo Reed. Image on cover shows a large orange moon or planet hanging low in the sky over a grassy field and some foothills.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

2. Terrestrial History by Joe Mungo Reed

Release Date: April 8

Why I’m Interested: While I’d never want to live on Mars personally, I love reading books about how humanity might be able to survive there one day.

 

Book cover for One Way Witch by Nnedi Okorafor. Image on cover shows drawing of a young black woman whose torso has a yellow galaxy superimposed onto it. It’s hard to say where the stars end and the woman begins. There is also a mirror effect going on here, so you can see another copy of her head and the galaxy as an upside down image on the bottom half of the book cover.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

3. One Way Witch by Nnedi Okorafor

Release Date: April 29

Why I’m Interested: Ms. Okorafor is on my short list of authors whose new works I always check out (eventually), but I do need to read the first book of this series before diving into this one.

 

Book cover for The Staircase in the Woods by Chuck Wendig. Image on cover shows a large spiral staircase in a dark woods. The staircase illuminated by a bright yellow light and you can see the small figure of a person - possibly a child - walking up the staircase.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

4. The Staircase in the Woods by Chuck Wendig

Release Date: April 29

Why I’m Interested: Today I’d like to confess to the  Top Ten Tuesday community that I have started reading all of Wendig’s old books but always stopped reading them at some point because they were too scary for me. Will this book be the one of his I actually finish? Only time will tell. He’s a great storyteller from the bits I have read.

 

Book cover for  The Road to Tender Hearts  by Annie Hartnett. Image on cover is a simple, 1970s-style drawing of a person wearing a teal sweatshirt and brown shorts who is standing behind a station wagon and pushing the back of it as someone in the vehicle is driving. They must be stuck! They appear to be in the desert somewhere as there are cacti and a small, red mountain or large hill in the background.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

5.  The Road to Tender Hearts  by Annie Hartnett

Release Date: April 29

Why I’m Interested: Road trips are so much fun to read about.

 

Book cover for  The Road to Tender Hearts  by Annie Hartnett. Image on cover is an underwater drawing of three young white people who are swimming in a pool while facing each other. Their bodies almost form a circle, and I can imagine them chatting as they gently swim.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

6. My Friends by Fredrik Backman

Release Date:  May 6

Why I’m Interested: Mr. Backman is one of those authors I keep meaning to read. His stories always sound so interesting, but none of them have made it off my TBR list yet. Maybe this one will?

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Wednesday Weekly Blogging Challenge: Characters I Want to Meet

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The word “hello” written in white chalk on a black chalkboard. Here are some characters I’d like to meet.

Sister Monica Joan from Call the Midwife by Jennifer Worth would be a good pick because of how creative, funny, and knowledgeable about the past this character was.

She joined Nonnatus House as a young women around the turn of the 20th century when antibiotics, chemotherapy, (the vast majority of) vaccines, genetic testing, and other modern medical advancements were still decades away from being invented. By the time the author of this book was hired to work as a district midwife in the late 1950s, Sister Monica was showing clear signs of cognitive decline and forgetfulness.

Her memory for the past was still strong, though, and she helped the young midwives solve some tricky medical cases involving diagnoses that they hadn’t personally treated before. I’d focus on the past with her and ignore anything she said about the present that didn’t quite make sense. It’s good to meet people where they’re at and learn about what life was really like generations ago.

 

Matthew Cuthbert from Anne of Green Gables by L.M. Montgomery is my second pick because I love spending time with fellow quiet, gentle people. I feel like I could help him with a few chores around the farm without either of us feeling like we had to speak if there weren’t any words in that moment. There’s something relaxing about hanging out with folks who are comfortable with silence.

 

Yetu from The Deep by Rivers Solomon. (The mermaids in this book don’t have last names). Like Sister Monica Joan, Yetu struggles with memory issues for reasons that would be spoilers to share in this post. I loved seeing how her curious and intelligent personality found ways around the holes in her memory so she could share her tale. She was thoughtful and filled with opinions about what her life should be like. I could sit and talk to her for hours.

 

Connie Ramos fromWoman on the Edge of Time by Marge Piercy would be another interesting person to meet. I think that once she realized I believed that she had time travelled and wanted to help her we could have all sorts of productive conversations. She was not the sort of person who reacts well to being misbelieved, but I  would hope she’d open up and share her deepest thoughts with someone who did treat her well.

 

 

 

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Top Ten Tuesday: Books That Are Written in Verse


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A bouquet of blue hydrangeas sitting on an opened book of poetry that is itself sitting on a a white table. The wall behind the table is painted turquoise blue. Occasionally, new books are released that are written in the form of poetry. That is to say, the entire story is told through one poem (or, more often, many different poems) that push the character and plot development forward.

This is such a creative way to tell a story! Here are some examples of books written this way that I’ve enjoyed.

1. Out of the Dust by Karen Hesse

2. Sold by Patricia McCormick

3. The Poet X by Elizabeth Acevedo

4. Brown Girl Dreaming by Jacqueline Woodson

5. The Crossover by Kwame Alexander

6. Sir Gawain and the Green Knight by Unknown

7. Booked (The Crossover, #2) by Kwame Alexander

8. Clap When You Land by Elizabeth Acevedo

 

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Wednesday Weekly Blogging Challenge: A Book I’m Nervous to Read (and Why)

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Photo of a wooden fence with barbed wire strung at the top of the fence. The sign on the fence reads, “private no public right of way.” On the other side of the fence you can see a large grassy area and, in the distance, a grove of trees separating this grazing area from the next one. A Man Called Ove by Fredrik Backman is my answer for this week’s prompt.

Why am I nervous to read it?

While I’m usually pretty good at ignoring short-tempered curmudgeons in real life, I developed that skill by emotionally distancing myself from them, setting firm boundaries, and accepting that they are (probably) never going to change.

From what I understand about the plot, Ove does eventually change and become a (slightly? moderately? dramatically? ) more tolerable person to spend time with.

I’ve avoided reading this book so far because I’m worried about being annoyed by how unrealistic the character development will be and how much the narrator will expect the kind characters I’m assuming the protagonist meets to bend over backwards to accommodate his surliness.

I am courteous to people like Ove and help them if I can do so without harming myself in real life, but I also don’t think the onus should be on those of us who are easy going to absorb other people’s anger. It reminds me of when teachers would sit me next to the class troublemakers because I was one of the quiet and  studious kids in the classroom. (Yes, I know teachers in some districts have limited options when dealing with disruptive students, but expecting their good students to be the first line of defence against kids who can’t or won’t follow simple classroom instructions is a terrible strategy!)

People like Ove are presumably competent adults who are choosing to behave badly while many of us are quietly dealing with all sorts of problems without ever taking our pain and frustration out on others. A one-time or rare outburst can easily be forgiven, of course, but I avoid people who turn such behaviour into a habit or make excuses for it.

Frankly, I have my own troubles to deal with and simply don’t have the time or energy to try to “fix” the Oves of the world. I wish them well and genuinely hope things improve for them while also believing that it’s ultimately up to them to decide whether or not they will choose to behave in a way that makes others enjoy their company.

Yes, this can be harder for some people than it is for others for a variety of reasons, but part of being an adult is developing these coping skills and taking accountability if you hurt someone else just like you’d work on any other fault. I don’t expect perfection, just effort.

Maybe someday I will have the time and energy to read this book and see if my assumptions about it are valid, though!

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Top Ten Tuesday: Things Characters Have Said


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The full explanation for this week’s prompt was:

Two overlapping speech bubbles. They are white and have blue borders. Maybe a character said something really profound or romantic or hilarious or heartbreaking. You could share witty one-liners, mic-drop moments, snippets of funny dialogue between multiple characters, catchphrases, quotes that have become a part of pop culture–like “May the odds be ever in your favor.”, etc.

I rarely write down quotes from books, and when I do they tend to be several sentences long and have not become common sayings in modern English. Therefore, I’ll share some famous one-liners and catch phrases instead and hope that I have not misunderstood this topic:

 

“Bah! Humbug!”

Charles Dickens, A Christmas Carol

 

“Big Brother is watching you.”

George Orwell, 1984

 

”All that glitters is not gold”

Shakespeare, The Merchant of Venice

 

Not all those who wander are lost.

J.R.R. Tolkien, From “The Riddle Of Strider” Poem  in The Fellowship Of The Ring

 

It was the best of times, it was the worst of times.”

Charles Dickens, A Tale of Two Cities

 

The answer to the ultimate question of life, the universe and everything is 42.”

Douglas Adams, The Hitchhiker’s Guide To The Galaxy

(Maybe I have geeky friends, but I’ve heard this quoted more than once when someone has an existential or complex question).

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Wednesday Weekly Blogging Challenge: Favourite Hobby and Why

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You all might have noticed this already, but I’m easily amused, and I think that’s a good thing. I cannot narrow my answer down to just one hobby, but I’ll try to keep this brief.

I love:

Reading and writing, of course.

These ones basically go without saying. If I have sufficient access to good stories and writing materials, I can amuse myself all day.

 

Lydia, a white woman with curly brown hair who is wearing jeans, sneakers, and a light jacket, is sitting in a comically oversized red beach chair. She is smiling slightly. Taking long, meandering photography walks

This is a fuzzier answer, so let me give a couple of examples.

About 2 years ago my spouse and I took a bus to a beach that’s a bit of a trek from our house. We walked up and down the boardwalk and I snapped photos of my favourite things there like trees, boulders, and a ridiculously large but delightful beach chair. (See photo).

Then we bought two hamburgers, an order of fries to share, and a soda to share.  I wanted to stay there all day!

Last autumn we spent the day at High Park and did something similar. First we enjoyed our hamburgers, fries, and soda, and then we spent a few hours walking around the park and snapping photos of the wildlife and plants there.

Every walk is different. Sometimes i find a fun, new dairy-free bakery to visit, a live musical performance we weren’t aware of, a new mural, or a little park I didn’t know was recently built.

I love these free surprises. You don’t have to spend money to have fun, and when I do buy things on occasion it’s almost always something like lunch that I would have needed no matter where I was at that time of day.

Walking is a healthy, easy habit to get into as well. I know I spend far too much time online or watching tv shows when the weather is bad, so I try to make up for that by taking long walks when it’s mild outside.

 

Jigsaw puzzles

I love the challenge of putting them together. They’re such a fantastic distraction from whatever else I might be worried about or dealing with in life.

 

 

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Top Ten Tuesday: Books Set in Another Time


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The word time is printed on a piece of cardstock. The cardstock is on fire and the flames have almost reached the printed word on this document. One of the reasons why I enjoy science fiction so much is how often authors in this genre set their tales in alternate universes, alternate timelines, or in versions of the past or future that are likewise different from our own in important ways.

Here are ten books with these sorts of settings.

1. Kindred by Octavia E. Butler

2. My Real Children by Jo Walton

3. To Say Nothing of the Dog (Oxford Time Travel, #2) by Connie Willis

4. Before the Coffee Gets Cold (Before the Coffee Gets Cold, #1) by Toshikazu Kawaguchi

5 .11/22/63 by Stephen King

6. The Man in the High Castle by Philip K. Dick

7. The 7 1/2 Deaths of Evelyn Hardcastle by Stuart Turton

8. A Connecticut Yankee in King Arthur’s Court by Mark Twain

9. The Kaiju Preservation Society by John Scalzi

10. The Years of Rice and Salt by Kim Stanley Robinson

 

 

 

 

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